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Grand Magnate
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Feb 17, 2020 at 01:01 AM
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This goes out to everyone feeling lonely tonight. You aren't alone in that feeling. I'm sending you my gentle hugs, and expecting nothing in return. I think I'm too messed up in every way to ever be loved but I hope for better for you.
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Feb 17, 2020 at 01:13 AM
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Hugs to you sorryshaped. I am lonely tonight because my H is working and kids are at my Dads house. I doubt you are too messed up to be loved though. I dont deserve the love I get but I still get it and I hope the same will happen for you
__________________ Bipolar 1 Borderline Personality Disorder Alcohol Use Disorder Meds: Depakote Welbutrin Abilify I didn't want any flowers, I only wanted to lie with my hands turned up and be utterly empty. How free it is, you have no idea how free. - Sylvia Plath |
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Feb 17, 2020 at 01:22 AM
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Hugs to you SorryShaped
 
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Feb 17, 2020 at 08:04 AM
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 For what it's worth, you seem like a nice guy with a cool personality. Even if the absolute worst case happens where you're never loved again (and I doubt that would ever happen!), you still have people on this site who love you and care about you. It's not a romantic love, but it's still love nonetheless. |
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Feb 17, 2020 at 09:57 PM
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How kind of you, Sorry Shaped. I am quite lonely tonight (as I usually am). Your thoughtful words are so helpful.
Gentle hugs to you, too. __________________ |
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Grand Magnate
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Feb 18, 2020 at 01:12 AM
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There are people I love, even some that might not deserve it. But, I don't feel "in love" and it hurts. It's an emptiness, a longing. There is someone who says she loves me romantically, and I've made it clear that I don't feel that way and she's still ok with that. I feel bad that I don't feel the way she wants. I feel guilty and angry with myself for not feeling love in return. But, it is as it is.
Perhaps I should do better, but this is where I am right now. I often feel lonely in a room full of people I know. |
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Feb 18, 2020 at 05:29 AM
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"In love" is either there, or its not. There doesn't seem to be a darn thing we can do about it. Please don't feel bad. __________________ |
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Feb 18, 2020 at 08:12 PM
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