They instilled such a sense of “badness” in me ... with all this ongoing crap TRIGGER

Fuzzybear · Mar 30, 2020 at 12:51 PM

I said to Papa bear ... and for a second I believed it...

Possible trigger:

Edited

I’m sorry if this is triggering. Every time IT pops up on social media etc, I get triggered. My bad.

Mar 30, 2020 at 02:15 PM

Hi Fuzzy. I'm sorry if some people abused you in the past. I hope that you can someday put them in the past where they belong. To let past abusers "live on" gives them too much power, and they aren't worthy of that.

I'm not sure if what I wrote applies. I only wrote what I did based on my understanding of things you've written in the past.

Mar 30, 2020 at 02:31 PM

I'm not sure what's going on, Fuzzy, but when you say "with all this ongoing crap," it sounds like it at least partially involves the virus situation? It is indeed very stressful.

I try not to watch the media too much about it. I find that everyone has their own version of the same story, and it's gotten to the point where I've just given up on trying to find the actual truth. These media journalists embellish things, they outright lie, etc. to get people to click on their articles. They make money from ads, and so they like to make clickbait titles.

Personally? I think the virus is scary and I definitely don't want it either, but the media makes it out to be way worse than it is. They'll say some BS like "1 million people in America may die!!!" While I suppose that could be true, it's highly unlikely, and they probably just made it up because the CDC is saying that that number is absurd and that the media is just doing fear mongering s*** to get people to click their articles.

bpcyclist · Mar 30, 2020 at 02:33 PM

i support you 10,000%, Fuzzy!!!!

Hugs and love!!!!

Fuzzybear · Mar 31, 2020 at 10:18 AM

''WHEN we suffer trauma at the hands of others, we are made to feel ''weak'' and ''broken'' and like we ''lack'' what they STOLE from us

(thanks fern)

fern46 · Mar 31, 2020 at 11:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

''WHEN we suffer trauma at the hands of others, we are made to feel ''weak'' and ''broken'' and like we ''lack'' what they STOLE from us

(thanks fern)

Luckily made to feel and actuality are two very different things!

Skeezyks · Mar 31, 2020 at 06:21 PM

The title of your thread reminded me of this article in PC's archives:

Breaking Free from the Bonds of Badness

~Christina · Mar 31, 2020 at 08:46 PM

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Fuzzybear Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Cave. Posts: 96,325 (SuperPoster!) 21 81.2k hugs given	Mar 30, 2020 at 12:51 PM #1 I said to Papa bear ... and for a second I believed it... Possible trigger: Edited I’m sorry if this is triggering. Every time IT pops up on social media etc, I get triggered. My bad. __________________
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Anonymous46341 Guest Posts: n/a	Mar 30, 2020 at 02:15 PM #2 Hi Fuzzy. I'm sorry if some people abused you in the past. I hope that you can someday put them in the past where they belong. To let past abusers "live on" gives them too much power, and they aren't worthy of that. I'm not sure if what I wrote applies. I only wrote what I did based on my understanding of things you've written in the past.
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bpcyclist Legendary Member Since Sep 2019 Location: Portland Posts: 12,681 (SuperPoster!) 4 40.2k hugs given	Mar 30, 2020 at 02:33 PM #4 i support you 10,000%, Fuzzy!!!! Hugs and love!!!! __________________ When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield
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Fuzzybear Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Cave. Posts: 96,325 (SuperPoster!) 21 81.2k hugs given	Mar 31, 2020 at 10:18 AM #5 ''WHEN we suffer trauma at the hands of others, we are made to feel ''weak'' and ''broken'' and like we ''lack'' what they STOLE from us (thanks fern) __________________
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Skeezyks Disreputable Old Troll Member Since Oct 2015 Location: The Star of the North Posts: 32,762 (SuperPoster!) 8 17.4k hugs given	Mar 31, 2020 at 06:21 PM #7 The title of your thread reminded me of this article in PC's archives: Breaking Free from the Bonds of Badness __________________ "I may be older but I am not wise / I'm still a child's grown-up disguise / and I never can tell you what you want to know / You will find out as you go." (from: "A Nightengale's Lullaby" - Julie Last)
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~Christina Legendary Wise Elder Community Liaison Member Since Jul 2011 Location: Tennessee Posts: 22,450 (SuperPoster!) 12 12.7k hugs given	Mar 31, 2020 at 08:46 PM #8 Fuzzy __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~
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