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Location: NJ
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#762
I’m absolutely riddled with anxiety. I feel like I can’t breathe every time I’m alone with my thoughts, like trying to fall asleep at night. I don’t know what to do. I’m thinking of calling my pdoc and asking her about it. I’m not sure I want klonopin bc I’m already tired all day from the seroquel. The benzo would add to that. I don’t get a high from klonopin so I’m not nervous about emotional addiction but physical dependency is always possible. But I don’t know what else there is.
I really think work is getting to me. I’m dreading going in tomorrow. I really hope my kid finds something to help him soon. He’s been threatening me and other staff. He’s not that big but he’s stocky so I’m not sure I could safely hold him. I don’t want to give up on him. But at the same time I’m unsure if he’s just testing me or really serious. I don’t know. All I know is I’m exhausted by the end of the day. I can’t play games with my son. I don’t want to do what my mom did. I want to be better than that. I have therapy tomorrow too, so I’ll discuss it with her too. __________________ Of course it is happening inside your head. But why on earth should that mean that it is not real? -Albus Dumbledore That’s life. If nothing else, that is life. It’s real. Sometimes it f—-ing hurts. But it’s sort of all we have. -Garden State |
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Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
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I'm glad you've shared your anxiety and concerns with us. I have tremendous empathy for the child you're working with. That said, I'm wondering at what point Mom decides she knows enough about who her son "really is" and allows him the meds he clearly needs? Also, how much do you have to be endangered (because that's what it is) by the child before boundaries are set by your workplace? You are entirely correct; your own son deserves a healthy you. I hope your session tomorrow is productive. Keep us posted Oh - and regarding the Klonopin...I do have a dependency on it. It was very useful, though, way back when. If I could do it over, I would have taken Klonopin for only a month or two until my anxiety either got better or got worse and needed a different type of med. Personally, Seroquel never touched my anxiety. __________________ |
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Good that you've nothing worse than a strain, just important that it doesn't worsen. So do take good care Those blood pressure readings are too high, but I'm glad it dropped some at home. In my experience psych meds definitely cause high bp. When I was thin and on just an AD my bp went up. Why so many MD's don't know that is puzzling to me. __________________ |
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Member Since Sep 2012
Location: New York
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#765
I've been in a depression for several days but I'm ok. Then I get more financial woes this evening, just trying to stay positive
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Member Since Jun 2015
Location: Czechia
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Yes, definitely high stress rockets my mood upwards. I am a little bit more level now, but not completely. I will take an extra 50 mg Seroquel XR this morning again. It's only 5:20 am right now. |
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Location: Czechia
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#767
Thanks Coolbreeze and Beth Rags!
Beth Rags, somewhere I read an article stating how psychiatrists should be more assertive about ensuring patients metabolic health. In my psychiatrist's defence, he is always asking why my GP and nephrologist hold off on prescribing such treatments. It's actually angered him, and yet he doesn't get on the phone to them. They always keep saying "Well, not yet. Maybe..." My GP says I'm still not high enough risk for such meds, but everything I see implies otherwise. Certainly psych meds suck in that they cause metabolic problems, but I have to take the suckers. Without, I would become severely ill, mentally. In my case, the psych stuff, untreated, would be far worse than metabolic risks, I think. Last edited by Soupe du jour; Sep 29, 2020 at 05:01 AM.. |
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Member Since Sep 2019
Location: Portland
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#768
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Stay on it. Hope you heal quickly. Hugs!! __________________ When I was a kid, my parents moved a lot, but I always found them--Rodney Dangerfield |
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My brother has untreated BPD (won't accept diagnosis, won't do DBT, insists he has PTSD from arguments with my father which has led to lack of a relationship at this point with him and his ex-wife having cheated on him).
His BPD manifests itself in various ways. I do not mean to denigrate in any way those with BPD, it just seems that much of his behavior stems from this. In his case (and some of this may not be as the result of BPD, but some other types of dx), if there's any disagreement or I don't do what he wants me to do (he's very controlling), he explodes into a rage, to the point that I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him. He walks all over boundaries, and it has historically been very difficult for me to put up boundaries because he is so controlling, but doing so is on me, and I'm getting better at it. Everyone in my family has called him 'abusive' at one time or another. I agree with this. I moved to the state where he lives about 4 years ago. Before this, for many many years, I had very limited contact with him. He was abusive to me as teenagers and I wanted little to do with him, though it had been more of a passive not wanting to be around him, I never really thought about why. I felt protective of him in my mind. In any case, since I moved here and have had regular contact with him, it has been a rollercoaster ride. When things are good between us, it's a pleasure to be around him. When we disagree about something, however small, it's horrific. To give an example, a few years ago I needed to buy a new car and he BLEW UP at me over the phone because I had decided to buy a car which wasn't amongst those he had recommended. And there's so so so much more... My point in writing all this, is that last night I finally wrote him an email saying that I want no more contact with him unless and until his behavior changes. It's only about a page long and is to the point. I also mention how he has blown up on my mother on many occasions (she's wheelchair-bound due to MS) and express my concern about that, but say it's up to them to work out their relationship between the two of them (I've gotten in the middle too many times; I'm learning...). I strongly encourage him to seek out therapy. I said I loved him. I know it will hurt him. A lot. And I fear the fallout. Once when he was fighting with my father and stepmother over email, he drove 3 hours to their home and pounded on their door to talk to them in person. He then proceeded to blow up at them, scaring my stepmother in the process; she has said she's scared of him ever since. I'm afraid he'll come pounding on my door as well. But my doors are locked and I won't let him in. I worry about this also because he has said many times that he doesn't want to deal with 'emotional' stuff via email, it has to be in person (unless he initiates such an email chain). But I won't see him in person because of his anger -I end up feeling intimidated and just can't express myself that way. So the email is sent. My boundaries are set. It's actually possible he won't even read it, he's done this before when he suspects it's about emotional topics. but if he does, all hell could break lose. The last time I tried to end contact, his girlfriend, now wife, texted me that he had called her about it and that she jumped in her car in the middle of a work day to go where he was because she feared he would be so devastated he wouldn't be able to take it. But his reaction, his emotions and anger, are not my responsibility, or so people keep telling me, and it's beginning to sink in... __________________ Bipolar 1 Lamictal: 400 mg Latuda: 60mg Klonopin: 1 mg Propranolol: 10 mg Zoloft: 100 mg Temazepam: 15 mg Zyprexa 5-10mg prn (for Central Pain Syndrome: methadone 20 mg; for chronic back pain: meloxicam 15 mg; for migraines: prochlorperazine prn) |
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#770
Taping up full boxes. Not sure what else I can do. I'm getting really nervous now. SOMEbody had better call me today!!
P.S. I just emailed my section 8 worker asking what the status of the inspection is and what happens next after it passes. We'll see what she says. I HOPE it's "You passed, now..." instead of "Inspection hasn't passed; need to do a new one..." __________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Loxapine 50mg Ingrezza 80 mg Ativan .5 mg 2x/day Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) Last edited by Moose72; Sep 29, 2020 at 09:23 AM.. |
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#771
This! Not only is this not your responsibility, its not your problem either. It's his. My mother has blown up at me in the past. (I think she might have BPD.) It's part of BPD. My dysphoric mania plus her BPD = disaster. I hope you can keep your distance and that he doesn't go on a rampage after your email. (I don't know what your email says, but I'm sure it was a rational, well-thought-out email.) You sound like you're doing well.
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__________________ ********* Mr. Robot Makes me sick to the heart, Oh I feel so tired. And the way the rain comes down hard, that's how I feel inside. --The Cure
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It's time to pray/send good luck/etc.! I left a message for the new complex asking when my new place is being inspected. It needs to be done or today so i can sign the lease tomorrow! Please send good vibes!
Well new good vibes are needed. I called and talked with the new complex who said its Friday that Im being inspected. Can move that day but we wont know what time just yet. I emailed the section 8 worker but she hasn't gotten back to me yet. I called my current landlord who said I have to pay an extra day but that I have to put my keys in the drop box by Monday at 5 p.m. I'm working on getting the keys from the kids so I can't hand them back. So this COULD all work out if my mom and her husband and the movers are free- and the lady who wants the piano. PRAYERS and GOOD WISHES NEEDED!! __________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Loxapine 50mg Ingrezza 80 mg Ativan .5 mg 2x/day Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) Last edited by Moose72; Sep 29, 2020 at 12:26 PM.. |
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Good vibes sent, moose!
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__________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Loxapine 50mg Ingrezza 80 mg Ativan .5 mg 2x/day Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) |
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__________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Loxapine 50mg Ingrezza 80 mg Ativan .5 mg 2x/day Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) |
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__________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Loxapine 50mg Ingrezza 80 mg Ativan .5 mg 2x/day Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) |
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The big problem is the movers. If they can't do it Friday we will have to move everything ourselves. I don't know what time I'll be moving- depends on when the inspection is.
__________________ Wellbutrin XL 300 mg Loxapine 50mg Ingrezza 80 mg Ativan .5 mg 2x/day Propranolol 20 mg 2x/day Mania (December 2023) Mixed episode/Hypomania (September 2023) Depression, Anxiety and Intrusive thoughts (September 2021) Depression & Psychosis (July/August 2021) Mania (April/May 2019) |
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Here in the land of fire I've seen fb reports that the flames are now being blown away from our home. I can't verify it, but I sure hope it's true. The most difficult thing right now is dealing with my MIL whose spiritual walk is so divergent to mine. It's quite abrasive being forced to bend to her spiritual view because she isn't willing to allow for differing perspectives. Anyway, I'll shut up about that now. I wish I could sit around a big table with all of you so that we could chat about this and that, tell stories and laugh together. __________________ >< |
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