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May 07, 2024 at 07:23 AM
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I'm a defective human being. I'm a woman child. I can't even drive. I depend on my husband for everything. I should be DOING things. I don't know why anyone even cares about me. My daughter is probably going to end up in therapy because of me when she's an adult. I'm just wasting my life away.
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May 07, 2024 at 10:05 AM
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I know the feeling but it's untrue. Start therapy now for your daughter. She could always use an extra adult in her corner. Should is a bad word in our house. What little things can you do to build up stamina to do bigger things. Things you once enjoyed. Maybe do a low interaction thing with your daughter like watching her favorite show with her. Something little that means a lot. I sit in the kitchen while my daughter does kitchen chores. Just so she can talk to me and she's not bored. There's a lot of things I can't do and that weighs on me but it's the small stuff I remember from childhood. My parents weren't great but I remember watching TV with my dad, going out late for tacos, just driving, basketball games And late night pizza. Didn't happen a lot but making time for me cemented our relationship. So try and make memories. What does your daughter like?
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May 07, 2024 at 01:40 PM
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You are far from defective, my friend. People care about you because you are worthy of their love.
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May 07, 2024 at 07:25 PM
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Not a wasted life at all.
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May 07, 2024 at 09:02 PM
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Not defective at all. Worth so much, to so many.
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May 07, 2024 at 09:53 PM
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You guys are all very nice. Thank you. ❤️
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