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Old 05-14-2019, 09:27 PM   #1
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Old 05-19-2019, 01:07 PM   #2
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Thank you for sharing aijunruan. This may sound old-fashioned....I'm a lot older than you but I don't think it's a great idea to post a photo of yourself on the site here particularly given that you are a minor. There may be a time when you wish you hadn't and you just never know who is logging on or pretending to be someone they aren't. Just a thought for you. There could also be implications for future jobs etc.

How is life in general for you? Do you have a friend to chat with or a trusted family member?
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Hello aijunruan: Welcome to Psych Central. I'm sorry no one ever compliments you or asks you out. That must make you feel very lonely. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support.

I'd like to second what SilverTrees wrote. Psych Central is searchable by anyone on the internet. So by putting your photo on here you are potentially making it available for viewing by anyone on the internet, not just Psych Central members.

I'm going to take the liberty of bringing your post to the attention of the moderators of this forum and perhaps they may contact you. However, you can also reach out to them yourself if you want your photo taken down. In the lower left-hand corner to the box your post appears in there's a little triangle with an exclamation point in it. If you click on that icon it will take you to a screen where you can request that this post be deleted.

Please do continue posting here on PC however. There's a lot of support that is available here. And the more you post your own threads, as well as reply to other members posts, the more a part of the community you will become. I hope you find PC to be of benefit.
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Old 05-23-2019, 01:38 PM   #4
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I suggest to remove your picture from this website so your identity will be more safe.


And second, however biological it may be, you need to realize being asked out isn't be-all-end-all of even social life. You need to realize, there are more important than being asked out at the age of 15. There's not much difference between our ages, and I am more into things such as astronomy and mathematics. Not that I don't want a social life, I also work towards that, but please understand that there are many things more important than looks in this world and those that matter most are independent of looks.
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Old 05-25-2019, 09:03 AM   #5
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Boys are very shy at that age. Ask them how was there weekend or something to get them talking. Even grown up women can wait forever to date someone if they always wait for the man to make the first.
You are very young and the complexity of dating could well be postponed if you have mental health issues to deal with. Dating is not all hugs and fun by a long shot. You might want to work on your own issues and make yourself s strong as possible before diving into dating. Having strong interest in life is more attractive than how you look.
I agree that it isn稚 such a great idea to put your photo on here, tho I understand that you wanted us to comment on whether it is your appearance that is causing you not to get a date. Trust me it isn稚. For one thing, we all want other qualities more or at least equally as a good appearance in someone to date. A sense of humor is the biggest attraction for me. So practice talking to boys, get them talking about themselves. I am over 65 and men in their 40痴 like me because I draw them out and encourage them.
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Hugs. I agree it would be safer to remove your photo. Boys of that age are often very shy, as another poster noted.
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Hi, aijuanrun. I am a 16 year old girl and you know what, boys are a weird lot. I think girls at our age are way more grounded and way more perspective about things like our bodies and they way we look and if boys are looking at us and boys don't think or even care about that sort of stuff. I think if they don't care then why do we care about trying to please them so much just to get aggravated so much by the way they act. I honestly wouldn't let it get to you much at all and do things that make you happy..
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At 15 you have just entered puberty! There's still so much growing and changing in store for you.
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