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Grand Magnate
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Jan 26, 2019 at 12:25 PM
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Don’t renounce to know yourself. Everybody has worn a more or less heavy mask. Maybe in bpd people is bc of the shame to be and show up as we really are.
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Jan 26, 2019 at 03:45 PM
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There is no shame at all. It's more like a knowledge and empathy of and for others - and more of a haze of and for yourself bc you were never able to fully grow your own personality as a child for whatever reason .. abuse, neglect, severe tradgedy, etc; you had to focus on survival of your circumstances, you could not focus on maturing as you should have. So not that you are an adult - you only have a partial form of what is you .. and try to fill in the blank with what is everyone else. It's hard to discover who you are if you don't have any clue how to figure that out but it's easy to fall back on what you know - how to blend in ... and take it one step further, and actually incorporate it into our lives. I hope that kind of clarifies it for you.
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Grand Magnate
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Jan 26, 2019 at 07:36 PM
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Very clarifying. Indeed I always described myself as a very inmature person. Guess it’s bc of my holes, blank spaces in self and identity.
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Jan 26, 2019 at 07:41 PM
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Thanks a lot. I’m very grateful for all your insight in this topic. Thank you all!
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Jan 26, 2019 at 07:49 PM
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You're welcome ❤
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