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Grand Magnate
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How do you more often tend to respond when dealing the world inside and outside you?
__________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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Good question.. all 3 I’m sure
There is also a fourth “f” - “fawn” (Sourced - Pete Walker) Hugs to you __________________ |
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Yes. You’re right. The fawn thing is without any doubt another self-defense manner.
Me too. I tend to be pretty gregarious. It’s not that I don’t feel the things I express or that I’m not a caring person by nature. Indeed, in my work as a teacher, my style was pretty maternal. But, yes...I caught myself sometimes doing things for others or trying to be more than helpful bc I somehow wanted to be accepted or compensate someway what I consider my wide amount of flaws. Fighting is the last of my options to be honest. But, also had my moments. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) Last edited by AzulOscuro; Feb 22, 2019 at 04:07 PM.. |
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I fight a lot unless I am legitimately concerned about emotional hurt, then its flight. I run anytime I care about someone too much. Usually I will stabilize with consistency and patience.
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Normally I just mentally curl up in the fetal position while people mentally hurt me. Very rarely do I stand up for myself but when I do that's when I go that 90% of the way and scare people. I've never had to go to 100% yet
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