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I started a new job end of April. At first everything was perfect to me, my coworkers are fun, they always help me and give me advice, they are friendly. I thought it was the perfect job and I liked it.
But then after a month I started to become paranoid. I started to think everyone hated me, and I still am afraid that everyone hates me. If for example a coworker uses a different tone of voice, or a more serious expression, I start to think "they hate me, they are angry at me". So because of this now I dont' really like this job. I want to quit and find another one. At the morning I don't want to wake up, I don't like the environment or the tasks. My contract will end at the end of August. I think I'll tell my boss that I want to quit and not continue the job, I'll find an excuse. __________________ At every moment of our lives, we all have one foot in a fairy tale and the other in the abyss.
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Location: Canada
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They don't hate you, you know. I wouldn't be so quick to quit if I were you. The same happens to me at every job I work to, it's likely that you'll feel the same at an other place..
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I don’t think they hate you either ...
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You are fine. Everyone's mood changes during the day. It's not personal
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When that happens to me, I try to remember that it will happen where ever I go. If I quit, I will have to go through finding another job. I may not find as good of a job. The people may not be as friendly. All the bad I find with the job I have will happen at any job. I have to look at the benefits of keeping the job. My pay increases as I stay and do a good job. I have some benefits I might not get somewhere else.
One thing that I have been told is that it is easier to get a new job if you are already employed. If you do decide to leave, you may want to start looking before the day you quit. Good luck either way. Hugs! __________________ King Moonraiser: A toy is never truly happy until it is loved by a child. |
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