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After a month or so free of my fiancés moms bs, I've been a lot calmer and more "me" for a lack of a better way to put it. I've bern happier, complaining less, noticeably easier to put up, etc. The last three days however, I've been feeling mentally unstable. Cranky and moody. Paranoid as well.
On a chat server we're in together, theres this one member who just rubs me the wrong way ever since I ranted in a sub-chat. The sub-chat is meant for ranting and such. Well, I ranted about being jealous of the attention my fiancé gives our cats. About ten or so minutes after, they posted in a related channel about being mature and coping methods and such when having arguments with your partner. A day or two later, they posted a picture about BPD being toxic and abusive. Now in that chat over half the members have BPD and other things going on so it's extremely rude and insensitive. I can't help but feel paranoid and angry at them. I perceive them as very passive aggressive and manipulative about it. They did a trigger of mine, then called it a tic whereas its not a tic... it genuinely triggers me and I panic and paranoia and anger (calling my fiancé his pet nane where its well known I have jealousy and possessiveness issues). A friend told me I'm probably splitting on said person. Does anyone else struggle with this kind of thing? I feel so illogical and out of control but also like its justified... Edit: They also claim to be socially ignorant as an excuse for their behavior. |
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