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Default Feb 16, 2020 at 11:27 PM
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I just had surgery a couple of days ago and am in alot of pain, I am extremely Jealous as it is, Well my boyfriend now has a code on his phone and I told him that I want him to move out, He says I go through his phone all the time and that is false, He is lying I dont go through it at all, I did at the beginning of our relationship but that was 3 years ago and he was writing to 2 of his ex girlfriends, His family says I am crazy because of my Jealousy, If I am in the wrong please tell me, My opinion is a person is hiding something
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Default Feb 16, 2020 at 11:53 PM
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My boyfriend of 3 years just put a code on his phone, I just had surgery a few days ago, Why did he do this, He says that I am to Jealous is why, He says I am always on his phone which is not true, I will admit at the beginning of our relationship I did get on his phone, But I also found him writing to 2 of his ex girlfriends, Yes I am a very jealous person but he can look on my phone when ever he wants, I have nothing to hide, His family thinks I am to Jealous and ridiculous, I told him that I want to break up, Am I wrong, Totally confused and need honest advice please, I feel like I am between a rock and a hard place
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Default Feb 17, 2020 at 01:56 AM
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It all sounds rather unhealthy....

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Default Feb 24, 2020 at 10:07 AM
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I can't possibly begin to tell you whether you are right or wrong. All I can say is it doesn't sound like you are very happy in your relationship, and that you have a lot going on, both emotionally and physically. There is no controlling others - only yourself. If you aren't happy in the relationship, if it isn't working out for you, trust your instincts and move on. Hoping you're feeling better now, less pain from the surgery.

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Cool Feb 26, 2020 at 10:52 PM
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My fiance moved out the othernifht because I made him leave, Any way he tried texting me a couple of times the following day but I didnt know it, Then the day after that which was today he left some voicemails on my other phone crying and telling me how sorry he was and how he missed me, He said would you please call me back so I can talk to you, To make a long story short we did talk and I told him that I would reactivate my facebook and would he accept, Then I was looking at some of his pictures and there were at least 3 or 4 different woman liking them, So then I cancelled the friend request and then again deleted my Facebook account, He should have been a factor, The reason he had that code was he was writing other women or private messaging them and he always had his phone on silent, My instincts are usually always right, At least he is gone and cant hurt me or control me anymore
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Default Mar 01, 2020 at 11:49 AM
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Well was going to write something...but saw "account suspended"....so.....I'll just say I hope you are doing better.

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