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Default Jun 30, 2020 at 07:36 PM
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I can't believe how cruel people are. Someone told me I am their ''best friend''. That same person blocked me on all social media last week and has told all their friends I am worthless. I hate being me. This so called friend knows I have abandonment issues.
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Hi Mountainbs friends

I too struggle with the word:

"Best friends"..

I am sorry for what she did bs friends a best friend is somebody you can say anything to and they accept you for who you are, unconditionally.
They'd treat you the same way you treat them..that is my concept.

A year of so ago, I visited my Best Friend, who had moved out of the area. I have known her since 7th grade, we raised our children together..
Long story short..
When I got to her house she told me she no longer trusted me yet and was staying in her house.
The last straw was when she accused me of smoking in the house, morning I left!
I could not wait to get to the airport.. I was crushed bs friends
Although we are friends on social media she does not share much of her life, and if she does she's always acting superior.

Sorry for the long haul, but I have some trouble putting my emotions in words.
All I can learn to do is to accept it..
If I think about it too much I have panic..

I'm a wonderful friend, and she's the one missing out.

Just because she said she's not you're not a wonderful person doesn't mean you aren'tbs friends
Be safe..

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Default Jul 25, 2020 at 12:45 AM
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Sounds harsh. Did this friend explain why?
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