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Jul 14, 2020 at 02:21 PM
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I am working hard at trying to make my marriage work. I think my husband is BPD and there are times when he just switches his behaviors and gets angry for no real reason. He thinks no one likes him and spending time with my family or friends and even neighbors is difficult. He seems fine but then when we are alone he will be angry with me about my family and that they do not like him. This is just one small area of problems for us or for me because he thinks he has it figured out but I am sure that things are not what he thinks they are.
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Jul 15, 2020 at 06:26 PM
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Thanks for posting this.
 Unfortunately I think the only advice I would be able to offer would be for your husband to seek treatment (therapy & / or psychiatric care.) If he truly is diagnosable as having BPD my personal, non-professional opinion would be there's not a lot you can do to help him all by yourself. Perhaps other PC members will have other thoughts on the subject.Here are links to 7 articles, from PC's archives, that (hopefully) may be of some help: How to Help a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder, Part 1 How to Help a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder, Part 2 Living with & Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder 15 Things Not To Do With Someone With Borderline Personality How to Stop an Anger Attack in its Tracks https://psychcentral.com/blog/11-way...-denial/?all=1 https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...essional-help/ My best wishes to you both... 
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Jul 16, 2020 at 10:06 AM
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Thank you so much. I know we may have a long road ahead of us but he is such a good man and I can't just walk away.
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