Brainwashed Kids

anybody know about brainwashed children, children brainwashed to hate their father because of mothers issues? I have 4 grand babies- ages 16 1st momma, 11 and 12 2nd momma, 2 3rd mother. My son, met the first wife, married two years later divorced him because “she didn’t love him to begin with.” And “he made me marry him”. The second wife did love him, but because of blue dye and serotonin syndrome, crashed seven years later. The third mother he met in drug rehab, (convinced the shaking was because of benzodiazepines, stopped taking which only pushed the symptoms that much further). It was the third mother, met at rehab, bomb him, and 2 years later murdered him. The first child, now 16, has been blasted all her life from her mother. Every single visitation was manipulated until 3 years ago, when she stopped visitation on her own, while continuing taking him to court every 3 months for child support payments that arrived Monday morning, or not getting child support payments when in hospital. It was insane, the County court house there runs it self %@#&$** the Supreme Court. The last time my son got a text from the 16 year old she told him not to contact him again, never ever. He knew it was her mother, but it didn’t help the pain. He died a year later never even talking with her again. Even though she was “allowed” to come to his funeral, her mother still at it, with her new husband. The new husband pushed her down the stairs, when she told her mother she wasn’t believed. She went to school, told the school. She went to “counseling”, but not without the mothers input, and the counselor ended up telling her she was retaliating her mothers husband, and it was her fault they were having marital issues. The 16 year old feels bad about the last text, and like any 16 yo gives excuses, and agrees her mother has been abusive about her father. But she is scared, of everything about her mother, she says she loves her - but is scared if she does retaliate she will never see her mother again. She has tried journaling, but her mother found the journal and she got her “ass beat”. She asked if her father loved her, and when I respond and answer her she just looks at me with this blank face, there’s no response afterwards. Calling DSS is worthless, they come by, leave - leaving the 16 year old for more abuse. What can I do to help my granddaughter?

Has she gotten any kind of therapy?