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Jul 18, 2018 at 04:56 AM
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so yesterday my mother sent me an email- and made it look all inosent
" hi emily, please find attached a song I like, the night has a thousand eyes by bobby v" and you're thinking well, I love discovering new music, let's check it out open the attachmemnt appropriately labeled " the night has a thousand eyes"
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she wrote to me again today telling me the guns were sounds she'd found on youtube wow why would you make all that effert to do that to someone wow felt really triggered last night, and guess I am a little today too |
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Jul 19, 2018 at 09:55 PM
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I agree that your mother is a sick woman and I think it's high time you block her and keep her out of your life.
((Hugs)) OE PS, send her an email back and tell her you LOVED her song because you thought the gun shots meant SHE WAS BEING WIPED OUT, which is music to YOUR ears. After that block her and don't open any more of her emails, just hit the delete button and as you do hit that button, say "bang bang" gone. |
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Jul 20, 2018 at 10:18 AM
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Yeah. Wow. That's so awful!
It sounds like you've done brilliantly well in detaching from her generally. As others said, it might be time for a total block. I feel for you, raging. |
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Jul 20, 2018 at 10:31 AM
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lol I should probably send that email, but I don't think I'll be too popular for it. hahhaa I wish it was just as simple as blocking her, sadly it's not... she has otherp lans and is always one step ahead of me |
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Jul 20, 2018 at 01:00 PM
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((raging vortex)), I understand what you mean. People who are mean and selfish like this do tend to seem to be ahead in a way because of the twisted way they think. It can be a challenge when you are a person who doesn't think up these kind of twisted attacks, it tends to challenge me as well as my own mind simply doesn't work this way. It's important that you make every effort to reduce your exposure to her, she is "poison" and you need to heal and develop healthy coping skills and you deserve that.
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Aug 01, 2018 at 11:38 AM
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OMG! I just saw this thread. Your mother is for sure a very sick woman. Can you go NO Contact? Please take good care of you.
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Aug 04, 2018 at 10:35 AM
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I can't unfortunately. though I've tried in the past, she's always found a way to get to my new information |
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