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Thought this might be a nicethread, if it doesn't already exist.

I know you were too afraid to speak out then and I am sorry no one spent time to get to know you. I can't undo what has been done but I want to get to know you now and I want you to be happy with how We go forward because you got me here and given the circumstances we did pretty well :-)
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Dear inner child,
I’m sorry no one spent any time getting to know you..
And that they only “accepted” you at all as a Clone of Themselves
And that their abandonment was complete
I want to try to accept you, “negativity” and all. I’m proud of you.
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Dear inner child,

I am sorry for ignoring you all these years. I used to spend so much time looking for someone who would make you happy that I never realized only I could do that for you. I promise I won't ever make that mistake again.
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Dear inner child,

I am sorry you arrived into the world to a mother who wanted a doll. No wonder you cried, no wonder the abuse has now taught us not to cry.

I am sorry that you were brought up as if you were plastercine (play dough). Being pushed and moulded into someone else's shape and not allowed to find out who you really are and want to be. Talents and gifts battered or stolen....

I know I still fall into the old patterns I was taught from time to time. I am sorry if I do that. We can work together and improve.

I want you to know that I accept you. I love you.
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Dear inner child,

You will be alright, you will understand why people act this way. Just know this...everything will be alright. Keep going and don't stop. You will act out in ways you will not understand and you will need to be forgiven.

This is when you will understand what forgiveness is. This is when you will be able to forgive everyone, even yourself. This is when you will be able to be the true you.

We will all have the bad days...but those too shall pass. Always walk toward the future...don't stop...never give up!
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Dear inner child,
You deserve to be forgiven for not being perfect, for making mistakes
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Dear inner child,

Dam the energy and strength it took you to get here. No wonder there is great reluctance to grow up and settle down and be an adult! I hope we can come to some form of agreement because other parts of us need your help.
I am sorry the initial promises of what other parts of me offered you so you would simple function haven't come to fruition. Maybe we can come to a joint agreement about what our future might look like.
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Dear inner child,

If only I could show you the future where you will live one day. The things you dream of are real.

P.S. Spend more time up in that apple tree in the back yard, enjoying the sunshine and listening to the birds, and practice the piano just a little bit more. [It'll help when you finally get your own rock band in the 1990s. ;-)]
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I am sorry I called you the inner Bi7c#. I thought all those times you were scared and fought or fled that I was just crazy. I won't abandon you the way others have. I am here and will always be with you.
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