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Old 04-12-2019, 01:42 PM #1
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Why is it so hard for us to love ourselves when we give love so willingly to others?
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You’re my friend
Maybe we will find some answers

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Allow the abusers to put out our light

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Thank you dearest and wise Fuzzy

We need to find new ways to offer love to ourselves....

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Thank you so much for making this thread, Thirty shades! I do believe we often don't consider ourselves worthy of love, even though that IS NOT TRUE! We ALL deserve to be loved! You're all STRONG, WONDERFUL PEOPLE and you DESERVE to be loved and respected just like everyone else is! I do believe that self-love comes from ourselves first! That way we'll be able to be more at peace with ourselves! Just remember to forgive yourselves if you make any mistakes! Please be kind to yourselves as mush as you possibly can because YOU MATTER and YOU'RE WORTH IT! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT! I completely agree with what Fuzzybear has already wisely said better than I ever could! I'd suggest you to listen to her as much as you can if you want! She always gives such great advice to everyone! Please try to be kind to yourselves because YOU DESERVE IT! I promise you that! Sending many hugs to everyone, including all of you here on PC
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I think because we are influenced either growing up or by trauma to think that we are bad people or unworthy.
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I think because we are influenced either growing up or by trauma to think that we are bad people or unworthy.
Indeed.. abusers are invested in attempting to make us feel as if we are bad people or unworthy. They point a finger at us... three fingers point back at them

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