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Old 11-07-2019, 12:52 AM   #1
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Soo... this is my first time posting on here because I just needed to get this off my chest. Im in 10th grade right now and my grades arent looking too great at the moment...Im failing my AP class with a D and I want to switch out badly because my parents especially my dad is strict when it comes to grades, but everyone is saying that it is way too late to switch but i need to because im afraid of my own dad. He would constantly blame my bad grades for me being on my phone or if i would try and say something he wouldnt believe me. My parents are both emotionally abusive towards me and my siblings when it comes to small things. I love my parents i really do, but they scare me. It goes from calling us names to threatening to hurt us. My mom constantly likes to run her mouth about little things which then makes my dad even more upset. On top of that I get blamed for anything my younger siblings do.
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Old 11-07-2019, 01:57 PM   #2
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Hello akamegakill: Since this is your first time posting, here on PC, welcome to Psych Central! The School & Study Issues forum, here on PC, may also be of interest. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/school-and-study-issues/

The Coping with Emotions forum may also be one to check out:

https://psychcentralforums.com/coping-with-emotions/

I'm sorry you are struggling with all of this. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support to you. Here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that touch upon the subject of coping with emotions as a teen plus 1 that discusses effective study habits:

Teens: Coping with Being Unwanted, Unloved and Unhappy

Techniques for Teens: How to Cope with Your Emotions

8 Tips for Teenage Depression

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sext-...eling-nothing/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/top-10-...-habits/?all=1

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.
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Welcome to pc

I can't relate directly to issues with siblings when a teen since I'm (was) an only cub. But strict parents, they excelled in that

I hope you find the links posted above of help
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Old 11-10-2019, 10:24 AM   #4
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Soo... this is my first time posting on here because I just needed to get this off my chest. Im in 10th grade right now and my grades arent looking too great at the moment...Im failing my AP class with a D and I want to switch out badly because my parents especially my dad is strict when it comes to grades, but everyone is saying that it is way too late to switch but i need to because im afraid of my own dad. He would constantly blame my bad grades for me being on my phone or if i would try and say something he wouldnt believe me. My parents are both emotionally abusive towards me and my siblings when it comes to small things. I love my parents i really do, but they scare me. It goes from calling us names to threatening to hurt us. My mom constantly likes to run her mouth about little things which then makes my dad even more upset. On top of that I get blamed for anything my younger siblings do.
Welcome! I'm sorry that you are struggling right now. My parents did the same to me and now I am watching my sister do the same to my nephew. Please remember that you are not alone and this is more about your parent than it is about you.
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Old 11-13-2019, 07:06 PM   #5
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This is called verbal abuse....sometimes more traumatic than physical Abuse. The Verbally Abusive Relationship (book) by Patricia Evans saved my life. knowledge is power, and the knowledge in the book can be very valuable
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