advertisement
Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
Gus1234U
Seeker
 
Gus1234U's Avatar
Gus1234U AWAKEN~!
 
Member Since: Jun 2010
Location: Here
Posts: 9,204
10 yr Member PC PoohBah!
Help Jul 22, 2018 at 07:44 PM
  #1
i don't know why there isn't a Whiners Forum, just so people who want to can post there without censure; and people who don't want to hear it, can just stay away~!

for example: people who share recipies - 1) i can't remember anything that complicated;
2) i'm not able to stand at a counter that's 9 inches too high (i'm a miniature, but my house isn't) and 'prep-cook' (which i assume means to cut up vegetables or pound meat);
3) i don't eat that stuff~!
4) keep it simple,, silly~ KISS~!


Next~!

__________________
AWAKEN~!
Gus1234U is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
possum220, rainbow8

advertisement
downandlonely
Legendary
 
downandlonely's Avatar
downandlonely has no updates.
 
Member Since: Mar 2018
Location: United States
Posts: 10,760 (SuperPoster!)
5 yr Member
10.6k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 22, 2018 at 07:47 PM
  #2
The heat is driving me crazy. I have the air conditioning on, but it doesn't seem to be helping much.
downandlonely is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U, possum220
Gus1234U
Seeker
 
Gus1234U's Avatar
Gus1234U AWAKEN~!
 
Member Since: Jun 2010
Location: Here
Posts: 9,204
10 yr Member PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 22, 2018 at 07:55 PM
  #3
it's SOOOOO HOT, my cooler is sucking $$ in one side and blowing coolish air out the other~!

my arm is sticking to the mouse pad~ O.O

__________________
AWAKEN~!
Gus1234U is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
possum220
possum220
Legendary
 
possum220's Avatar
possum220 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Jan 2009
Location: Uppa Gumtree West
Posts: 19,397 (SuperPoster!)
15 yr Member
7,983 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 22, 2018 at 11:15 PM
  #4
Thanks for making this thread Gus.

Every damn day my body seems to be hitting the skids. I can't afford to be this sick. Literally. I hate that functional people like doctors and dentists and surgeons are making money at my expense............. Literally.
possum220 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Gus1234U
Seeker
 
Gus1234U's Avatar
Gus1234U AWAKEN~!
 
Member Since: Jun 2010
Location: Here
Posts: 9,204
10 yr Member PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 23, 2018 at 02:12 PM
  #5
i have been 'crapped on' by so many doctors that they all look like a'holes~!

__________________
AWAKEN~!
Gus1234U is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
Skeezyks
Disreputable Old Troll
 
Skeezyks's Avatar
Skeezyks has no updates.
 
Member Since: Oct 2015
Location: The Star of the North
Posts: 32,762 (SuperPoster!)
8 yr Member
17.4k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Confused Jul 23, 2018 at 02:33 PM
  #6
I've come to the conclusion that being old is an invitation for health care providers to raid your piggy bank. They see you coming & dollar signs start to dance before their eyes! $$$ $$$ I don't want to be "healed"... I just want to be left alone...
Skeezyks is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
lizardlady, rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U, possum220
lizardlady
Legendary
 
lizardlady's Avatar
lizardlady has no update
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Mid World
Posts: 17,463 (SuperPoster!)
20 yr Member
7,501 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 23, 2018 at 02:37 PM
  #7
I'm off work this week. I had plans to clean up my own house and do things to put my Mom's house in order to put it on the market. I woke up exhausted and in pain today. See the plans go flying out the window.... I get so f'ing sick of this crap!
lizardlady is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U, possum220
Gus1234U
Seeker
 
Gus1234U's Avatar
Gus1234U AWAKEN~!
 
Member Since: Jun 2010
Location: Here
Posts: 9,204
10 yr Member PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 23, 2018 at 04:09 PM
  #8
the Cheeze and Whine thread...  come complain~!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h81Ojd3d2rY

'Monday Monday', the Mamas and the Papas

__________________
AWAKEN~!
Gus1234U is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
possum220, rainbow8
Anonymous32451
Guest
Anonymous32451 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a
Default Jul 24, 2018 at 04:57 AM
  #9
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gus1234U View Post
i don't know why there isn't a Whiners Forum, just so people who want to can post there without censure; and people who don't want to hear it, can just stay away~!

for example: people who share recipies - 1) i can't remember anything that complicated;
2) i'm not able to stand at a counter that's 9 inches too high (i'm a miniature, but my house isn't) and 'prep-cook' (which i assume means to cut up vegetables or pound meat);
3) i don't eat that stuff~!
4) keep it simple,, silly~ KISS~!


Next~!


having a deecent meal but having painful teeth so you can't enjoy it as much as you would have if they wern't painful
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Anonymous32451
Guest
Anonymous32451 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a
Default Jul 24, 2018 at 04:58 AM
  #10
great thread by the way
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U, rainbow8
Anonymous32451
Guest
Anonymous32451 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a
Default Jul 24, 2018 at 08:15 AM
  #11
getting up to move to the other side of the room and the pain just hits you like a tun of bricks
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Candy1955
Veteran Member
 
Candy1955's Avatar
Candy1955 HOPE IS A VERB, NOT A NOUN.
 
Member Since: Mar 2018
Location: USA
Posts: 605
5 yr Member
495 hugs
given
Default Jul 24, 2018 at 03:41 PM
  #12
I can't stand having to be the sanest person in the office or at home, when I don't want to be sane at all.
I can't stand indigestion.
I can't stand cliques, aka groupings of people who are obnoxious when together.
Candy1955 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
lizardlady, rainbow8
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
rainbow8
Legendary
 
rainbow8's Avatar
rainbow8 Healing, not replacing
 
Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: US
Posts: 13,284 (SuperPoster!)
15 yr Member
9,983 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 24, 2018 at 03:46 PM
  #13
Thanks, Gus! My friends and family don't want to hear about my pain anymore. I tell my therapist I want to die. She says I have to say"I will get better!" I have to think positive! It's so hard! Damn! My legs hurt and I hate meds! I hate this!! Why did this happen to me? I had a life before November, but then everything changed. I want to go home! I want to wake up from this nightmare! I'm a grandmother but I can't really enjoy my grandchildren. I want to get better. I don't want this pain! I don't want to be nauseous and weak from a medicine and have to stay on it because I tried almost everything else! I want to be off the warfarin but am scared something will go wrong after the 6 months and I will have to stay on it. It's for a blood clot!! Did I say this condition sucks? Spinal stenosis. Most people can sit and lie down! Why is my case different? I WILL GET BETTER because I can't tolerate this new life. ☹️
rainbow8 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
lizardlady
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Gus1234U
Seeker
 
Gus1234U's Avatar
Gus1234U AWAKEN~!
 
Member Since: Jun 2010
Location: Here
Posts: 9,204
10 yr Member PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 24, 2018 at 11:09 PM
  #14
my house is falling apart; the 'Home Owners Association' (which is an ogre) has over a thousand dollars in fines on externals, but the plumbing is all shot and ruining the floors, and now the wall in the bathroom...

i haven't had any hot water since the first week of january; that means: no laundry (i tried, the washer wouldn't work without a hot water supply ????), no showers (wash in the bathroom sink ~!!!! ). the first time i tried to boil water to wash dishes i scalded one hand so bad i had to keep it in ice for 6 hrs~ (that's BAD). i am spending money on paper plates and plastic utensils, and trying to keep my pots and pans clean with paper towels (not doing it well).

OK, all that is sad n stuff,,, but what REALLY burns my cookies is that this cycle started when Habitat for Humanity came out a year ago (~!~) and did an eligibility intake and assessment of my home and brought in all kinds of volunteer 'contractors' (electrician, plumber, carpenter), who all said "YAH, we can replace this and that and the other thing (and give you an interest-free loan to replace the water heater ,, which was working just fine). so i moved all my furniture, took the doors off the laundry room (not an easy job), and hauled a ton of stuff out from under this huge table, emptied my spare dishes from the cupboard..... and waited.... and waited,,,,, and then they said they couldn't get to me that year, but first thing next year....

but one guy who doesn't know squat tried to 'help me' get some boards under the water heater , and that's how it broke a pipe, and another 'hose' (it's an old mobile home) in the wall between the laundry and kitchen started leaking, which i didn't notice for ages, got Black Mold... now i'm sopping up water off the bathroom floor because i've gone without toilet water for 10 days twice already, and i can't go there again....

now they called again today, and asked if they could come over and bring the guy who's going to replace my water heater~! I DON"T WANT my water heater replaced~! one guy said i "NEEDED" a bigger water heater.... DUH~!
NO I DON"T~! i like this little one, it's cheap and meets my needs.

i was never able to put my house back together again after they left me hanging at the end of October last year... i've been living in chaos, which is NOT good for me... and now i'm so angry that i know i had better leave the room when they are here; which makes me an instant 'victim' of a bunch of men who don't care that i have a degree in construction; have helped build houses; kept this one up By Myself, for 20 yrs. all they see is a lazy, fat, stupid old woman. and i have to swallow that crap to get any 'help',,, yah, THANKS a lot~

__________________
AWAKEN~!
Gus1234U is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
lizardlady, Nammu, Wild Coyote
Anonymous32451
Guest
Anonymous32451 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a
Default Jul 25, 2018 at 04:44 AM
  #15
looking down this forum for the word "cheese", but actually it's "Cheeze"

I swear I had no idea.

bad at spelling
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Gus1234U
Seeker
 
Gus1234U's Avatar
Gus1234U AWAKEN~!
 
Member Since: Jun 2010
Location: Here
Posts: 9,204
10 yr Member PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 25, 2018 at 05:36 PM
  #16
so, the Habitat volunteer got the flu, and i hurried my day for nothing~
had a doc apptmt this morning, and lunch with a cousin whose dad died 2 days ago... at least i got a good doc~


the Cheeze and Whine thread...  come complain~!

__________________
AWAKEN~!
Gus1234U is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
lizardlady, Nammu
childofchaos831
Elder
 
childofchaos831's Avatar
childofchaos831 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2016
Location: Texas
Posts: 5,037
5 yr Member
15 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 26, 2018 at 12:50 AM
  #17
Sleep study was good, which means now I have to go for a brain wave scan. Basically an EEG.

Hoping that life will knock me far enough down it can only go up eventually at this point.

When does it end and the stress stops?

Pain is worse with stress, pain makes for more stress, with makes for more pain, round and round we go, down the rabbit hole...

__________________


Diagnoses:
PTSD with Dissociative Symptoms, Borderline Personality Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Fibromyalgia and Chronic Pain
childofchaos831 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
rainbow8, Wild Coyote
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Anonymous32451
Guest
Anonymous32451 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a
Default Jul 26, 2018 at 01:24 AM
  #18
when the sun shines so bright it actually hurts your eyes
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
childofchaos831
Elder
 
childofchaos831's Avatar
childofchaos831 has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2016
Location: Texas
Posts: 5,037
5 yr Member
15 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jul 26, 2018 at 07:09 AM
  #19
Quote:
Originally Posted by raging vortex View Post
when the sun shines so bright it actually hurts your eyes
Or makes you sneeze

__________________


Diagnoses:
PTSD with Dissociative Symptoms, Borderline Personality Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Fibromyalgia and Chronic Pain
childofchaos831 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
Anonymous32451
Guest
Anonymous32451 has no updates. Edit
 
Posts: n/a
Default Jul 27, 2018 at 09:21 AM
  #20
I have a random observation:

following up to my earlier post (about looking for cheese), I've just realised that wine and cheese go well together anyway.

no wonder I'm so confused
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Thanks for this!
Gus1234U
All times are GMT -5. The time now is 02:23 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.