FAQ/Help |
Calendar |
Search |
Human
seesaw
grieving
Member Since: Apr 2014
Location: Home
Posts: 8,341
(SuperPoster!)
1,262 hugs
given |
#2
The ignore function is set up for the safety of members. So whoever has you on ignore is doing so because you trigger them. You just have to learn to not take it personally. It doesn't make you a bad person or anything, it just means something you do or say triggers them. You just have to let it go and accept that you can't be everyone's friend. Think of it as an exercise in coping.
__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
Purple,Violet,Blue
|
eskielover, lizardlady
|
Guest
Anonymous48850
has no updates.
Edit
Posts: n/a
|
#3
If I can add a different example that might help. One poster used to write threads about a dying relative which reminded me of my father. I couldn't bear to read them or even see that person's name in another unrelated thread. So I put them on ignore. Not because I didn't like them or whatever. Just that their hurt and suffering reminded me of my own. Some issues or topics we just can't face. It isn't the person.
|
Calla lily12, Purple,Violet,Blue, seeker33
|
Angelique67, Calla lily12, eskielover, lizardlady, marvin_pa
|
Guest
Anonymous50384
has no updates.
Edit
Posts: n/a
|
#4
Quote:
(((((WhisperShadow))))) |
|
Guest
Anonymous32891
has no updates.
Edit
Posts: n/a
|
#5
I can't face being on any ignore list though, it triggers me cause of stuff that happened on a different forum, basically long story short I was on forced ignore with another member there, other member blatantly ignored it with nothing happening to them (they was admin's pet - forum version of teacher's pet), ignore broke, I messaged a mod to say ignore's broke, next thing I know I had admin yelling at me in PM literally just for letting a mod know ignore was broke cause apparently it was my fault and I never found out how it was my fault (and at no point did I interact with admin's pet since I got told to put her on ignore there, she was the one who kept replying to my threads and kept messaging me in the chat room and kept lying about me to the moderators etc)
That's why ignore's a trigger for me and I better get this posted before I change my mind and end up deleting it |
Anonymous32451, Anonymous48850, Calla lily12, MickeyCheeky, possum220
|
Human
seesaw
grieving
Member Since: Apr 2014
Location: Home
Posts: 8,341
(SuperPoster!)
1,262 hugs
given |
#6
Quote:
We.can all agree that there are things, in general, that are triggering, such as graphic content or suicidal talk. Other things, we have to be responsible for ourselves. There are many resources on this site for coping with emotions and emotional triggers. Sabby typically has great advice on this front. I suggest trying to use some of those coping techniques to deal with your personal triggers. __________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
|
lizardlady
|
Legendary
MickeyCheeky
My echo is the only voice coming back
Member Since: Jun 2016
Location: Italy
Posts: 11,817
(SuperPoster!)
38.4k hugs
given |
#7
Don't take it too hard
|
Guest
Anonymous32891
has no updates.
Edit
Posts: n/a
|
#8
And what I said above is only the tip of the iceberg, 2012 I had so much crap going on that being on ignore basically triggers memories of that time of my life as well as reminding me of that forum
Domestic abuse, having to give my much loved male cat away, having to basically run with family within hours to protect ourselfs from something serious that happened, having a online stalker, need I carry on? Although domestic abuse may of been the year before, I really don't remember too well And I have not posted anything like suicide or anything like that, worst I did was weeks ago make self harm comments but I have not repeated that Last edited by Anonymous32891; Aug 27, 2018 at 08:33 AM.. |
Calla lily12
|
Human
seesaw
grieving
Member Since: Apr 2014
Location: Home
Posts: 8,341
(SuperPoster!)
1,262 hugs
given |
#9
Quote:
__________________ What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
|
Guest
Anonymous32451
has no updates.
Edit
Posts: n/a
|
#11
Quote:
I am so sorry that ignore is a trigger for you ignore is a trigger for me too, not for the same reasons, for me it's.. if one person puts me on ignore, just one, it makes me feel worthless and horrible- and like I am no good for people- and not worth the forum's time. |
|
Anonymous32891, Calla lily12
|
Calla lily12
|
Guest
Anonymous32891
has no updates.
Edit
Posts: n/a
|
#12
Quote:
raging, you are worth the forum's time Unlike dirty scumbag here |
|
Anonymous32451, Calla lily12
|
Grand Member
Calla lily12
Calla is nothing
Member Since: Jul 2018
Location: a place far away
Posts: 826
978 hugs
given |
#14
Yes ignore triggers me also for a different reason. It's a huge rejection to me. I makes me terribly self destructive when I'm rejected because I feel so worthless and despised.
I get it...really hugs __________________ Once you are real, you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.... |
Anonymous32891
|
Carpe Diem
TheWell
in my own private Idaho
Member Since: Aug 2012
Location: New England, USA
Posts: 4,312
631 hugs
given |
#16
Thread closed at the request of the OP
|