advertisement
Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
Fuzzybear
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,301 (SuperPoster!)
20 yr Member
81.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Mar 24, 2018 at 04:05 PM
  #1
How do I stop people treating me with disrespect? Maybe some perceive me as “vulnerable” etc. I’ve shedded several mean and disrespectful people from my life. I’m very tired of having to put up with other people’s wrong assumptions and disrespect .. and abuse . Maybe I’ll have to isolate completely . I don’t think that would be healthy though

“Workplace bullies” ....

(Not about anyone here)

__________________
Fuzzybear is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
HD7970GHZ, Open Eyes, Wild Coyote
 
Thanks for this!
HD7970GHZ

advertisement
Wild Coyote
Legendary
Community Liaison
 
Wild Coyote's Avatar
Wild Coyote has no updates.
 
Member Since: Jun 2016
Location: USA
Posts: 12,735 (SuperPoster!)
5 yr Member
70.9k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Heart Mar 25, 2018 at 02:34 AM
  #2
Hey there Fuzzy!

Sometimes, it is a good idea to "shed" some problematic people.

Sometimes. we want respect, without necessarily ending the relationship. In those instances, I will ask the person as to why s/he does not treat me with respect? This often results in a change in their behavior toward me.

Just a thought.

You are right, it's unhealthy to totally isolate, if we can work something out with others.

Love Ya, Fuzzy!


WC

__________________
May we each fully claim the courage to live from our hearts, to allow Love, Faith and Hope to enLighten our paths.
Wild Coyote is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear, HD7970GHZ
 
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, HD7970GHZ
Open Eyes
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes Not a Unicorn, just another horse
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 23,093 (SuperPoster!)
10 yr Member
21.3k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Mar 25, 2018 at 09:23 AM
  #3
Unfortunately Fuzzy a lot of people don't know how to respect boundaries and we live in a very attention seeking, high drama, entitled, angry, stressed, emotional and often even narcissistic society right now. I think the other growing challenge in our overall society now is how intrusive all our technology has become. Some work environments can be very stressful and that can lead to experiencing toxic behaviors where what you may be experiencing is how at times others may vent their anger at you which can understandably be triggering.
Open Eyes is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear, HD7970GHZ
 
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear, HD7970GHZ
All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:32 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.