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Default Oct 25, 2018 at 10:13 PM
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Default Oct 26, 2018 at 04:33 AM
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That's terrible. im so sorry


thanks for your words

yes it is horrible..
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I resent the day you were born. My mother said this to me at 13 years old, and I will never forget it. She meant every word. I was the only one out of 6 kids that was left out of my parent's will, and humiliated when I was allowed to read the will, by one of my siblings 3 years after my mother passed.
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Default Oct 27, 2018 at 10:42 AM
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"You're just dwelling in your diagnosis and I can't believe you are doing this to yourself."
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"You shouldn't have moved back here (here being the city of my birth after fleeing a stalker in another state)." Sister

"You just need to stop thinking about that stuff." Friends and family members
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Default Oct 28, 2018 at 01:39 AM
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I'm glad she didn't or we wouldn't have a great community liaison.


it is nice to know I'm apreciated.

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Default Oct 29, 2018 at 06:18 AM
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Well, there have been so many, and I'm pretty sure there's many more to come, so it's difficult to say which one is the absolute worst, but ...

This one is definitely in the top three:

A man I was once worked for told me that I must have been a really bad person in a past life to have all these evil things befall me in the current one!

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Unhappy Oct 29, 2018 at 09:06 AM
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Last night I watched the Story of Steve Irwen. Seeing how good that family was, and still is. It upset me so bad because my family was, and still is so rotten, and I resented that I didn't get any of that, even to this day. I asked, what did I do wrong, to have such turmoil through my whole life. I never thought I was a bad person. I was in my bedroom, by my self, and cried my eyes out. I haven't ever cried about my disfunctional family before, but after seeing how most normal family's are towards each other, I felt so hurt. I know this is about things said to us, but I felt I needed to share because I never realized how life could have been, and how much I had lost. I know it is suppose to make me stronger, but it never did.
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Default Oct 29, 2018 at 10:24 AM
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I just want to document this:
This is Mom. Do you want to talk? You were supposed to call me and you didn’t.

That’s because R relayed that you told him I could call you, but never bring up anything from the past again.

Well, he said that kind of harsh, but yes, that’s what I said.

So, I didn’t call.

Well you have to let this go.

I don’t even understand why you are mad at me.

You still insist on talking about it? I’ll move on after all those horrible things you said to me, “F you and this whole family. Don’t ever call me again.”

Unless I am really losing my mind, that never happened.

Even dad heard you say it.

Put him on the phone too.

Dad— No, I won’t talk about this. Tell her to call back when she’s calmed down and moved on.

I won’t ever move on and now you want to be controlling too about not allowing me to talk about this? I told you last time how hurt I was that you would never pick up the phone and call me. You’ve done it again. It’s been a month and I can keep going forever. We don’t have to ever talk again. The cruelty in this family is ridiculous. I’ve been crying over this for a month. I know how little I mean to all of you!

Mom— how can you be so selfish? Why don’t you think about how upsetting this is for others?

Me— don’t you dare turn it around on me!

Mom— Call back when you grow up!

Me— don’t you dare F’n berate me!

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Default Oct 29, 2018 at 09:46 PM
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Well, there have been so many, and I'm pretty sure there's many more to come, so it's difficult to say which one is the absolute worst, but ...

This one is definitely in the top three:

A man I was once worked for told me that I must have been a really bad person in a past life to have all these evil things befall me in the current one!

Retarded!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Default Oct 29, 2018 at 10:46 PM
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Another thing I remember is, I had my own room and I had a blackboard where I could write things down. One day as a teenager when I was very upset I tried to write my feelings down on the board. My mother came in and read over them, turned to me, and said (with tremendous indifference): "You goin' crazy or something?"
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Default Oct 30, 2018 at 08:10 AM
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What people say to me is never relevant, I can easily let opinions roll off my back. It's what I tell myself that can be both horrible and terrifying.

I suppose you can only take offense if what a person says is true. For example if someone says to me I'm ugly, fat or stupid. Well I know I'm none of those things however if I was to tell myself those things then I'd have issues.

Maybe when I was much younger opinions of others would bother me. After the age of 30 I just didn't care anymore. 😊😊😁
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Default Nov 11, 2018 at 01:17 AM
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That it's all in my head.
'i'm a good father, its all in your head'-Dad

'I never did that, your imagining things'-Mom


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Default Nov 11, 2018 at 03:50 AM
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"When we learned that you were mentally ill, we grieved as if you had died."

- Lefty's ma (1938-2006) circa 1998
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Default Nov 11, 2018 at 07:20 AM
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A therapist once told me that he could not understand how I was still alive after all that I'd lived through. He said that I'd survived without becoming an alcoholic, drug addict or a sex addict so there was nothing for him to treat.
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I got so angry at you parents when I read your post, Lefty.

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Default Nov 16, 2018 at 11:31 PM
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I was abused by my father because he thought I was gay as a child. When I wasn't. Long story...

At my wedding he said to my wife "I'm just glad he's not gay!"
After everything he had done to me, how could he say that on my wedding day?
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Default Dec 06, 2018 at 12:52 AM
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you have friends?!

She was genuinely shocked.

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Default Dec 06, 2018 at 02:11 AM
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"You're a mental case!"
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