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Default Dec 07, 2018 at 10:35 AM
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Default Dec 07, 2018 at 10:43 AM
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Here’s another goodie— I told my sister I had PTSD (diagnosed by a doctor) it goes back to Mom screaming at me at the dinner table. (Which she witnessed many, many times.) She said ( this was a text), “Do you expect me to agree with that?”

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Default Dec 07, 2018 at 11:21 AM
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My mom ran over a nest of rabbits she put them back. The mom never came. I bottle fed 6 baby rabbits for two weeks. They take forever to drink out of a bottle. It took an hour and a half twice a day. My mom but them on the porch in 90 degree weather. They all died but one. I was crying holding the only one left and my stepdad pulled up and told my mom I probably killed the rabbits. Hurts me to this day and that was 20 years ago.
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Default Dec 07, 2018 at 04:47 PM
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That's terrible. im so sorry
Unbelievable. I must say I'm glad she didn't, Ms. Vortex.
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Default Dec 07, 2018 at 08:17 PM
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When you say you struggle with ptsd and it is used against you so the other person can get the control THEY want and blame things on you as though ptsd means it's really your fault and not theirs when it IS their fault.
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Default Jan 11, 2019 at 08:26 PM
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When I was going through the toughest time of my life, I longed for a life-partner to help me get through, because I saw how other people in my situation had partners to help them get through.

One person said;

"No one wants someone who is needy."

Another person said;

"You have all those problems and you want to tell someone to come into your miserable life and join you in your misery."
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A therapist once told me that he could not understand how I was still alive after all that I'd lived through. He said that I'd survived without becoming an alcoholic, drug addict or a sex addict so there was nothing for him to treat.
That's so unprofessional of him.
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"do you want to embarrass your family?"

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Default Jan 13, 2019 at 05:33 AM
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"why do you act so messed up."
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Default Feb 03, 2019 at 10:39 AM
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My last living sibling blackmailed me into not outing my rapist brother, because ‘he would surely take his own life within the hour’. What about my life?!
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Default Apr 02, 2019 at 06:28 PM
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a long time ago my dad told me he didnt want me to live with him through my sister because i have a big mouth
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Default Apr 03, 2019 at 04:12 PM
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I could have aborted you, you know-mom
Stop being so sensitive-sibs
You have a nose like Carl Malden-sister (ha ha) she had a piggy nose.
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Default Apr 03, 2019 at 10:14 PM
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really? I doubt ptsd is a game of can you top this. I know mine isn't. and what is god awful for one person may be nothing for another. why even make a post like this? enjoy reading triggering things? enjoy having folks post their triggering things? seriously? what does this post accomplish positively?

do you also ask vets how many they kill? etc.

please. someone put an end to this post ...because again to what use does it help anyone? or will it simply turn into a "well then this happened to me" topic
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Default Apr 04, 2019 at 12:18 AM
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"I should have killed you while I still could." -An ex

"You're actually very nice, you don't look the part." Because people with piercings and tats apparently aren't nice I guess. -A friend's mom

"I hope your dog dies." -My cousins. The poor thing died from chocolates they sent... (I was a kid.)
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Default Apr 11, 2019 at 09:31 PM
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Loving this thread!

"If you kick, we'll kick twice as hard." - Unethical Therapist
"What's it like, not to be protected?" - Unethical Therapist
"Maybe you should just end your life." - Mom
"You're just paranoid. It is not possible that healthcare professionals would ever hurt you." - Brother
"You're a spoiled little #$%@." - Mom
"Therapists would never do that!" - Distress Center
"Your age regression is a mental illness, it is not healthy at all!" - Distress Center
"Now you are homeless. Figure it out." - Dad
"Maybe you deserved it." - Mom
"Your brother would never do that." - Mom
"You have a demon inside of you." - Brother
"You have a monster under the bed and we just want to know what it is." - Unethical Psychiatrist

There are many others - but these are triggering me and I need to take a break.

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I am sorry you feel that way.

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really? I doubt ptsd is a game of can you top this. I know mine isn't. and what is god awful for one person may be nothing for another. why even make a post like this? enjoy reading triggering things? enjoy having folks post their triggering things? seriously? what does this post accomplish positively?

do you also ask vets how many they kill? etc.

please. someone put an end to this post ...because again to what use does it help anyone? or will it simply turn into a "well then this happened to me" topic

Hi Resurgam,

While your feelings are valid, I must question whether or not you understand the purpose of this thread. It is not to compare trauma - it is to connect with fellow survivors on something we can all relate to: abuse.

No one is trying to one up, if that is how you think I believe that is something you should explore for yourself. In therapy it would be seen as valuable information.

I am not trying to be rude here, but I seem to remember you posting something rather invalidating and rude on one of my threads which actually triggered me quite a bit. Perhaps you should look at how your writing is impacting others before you post. Just a thought.

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Trig Apr 17, 2019 at 04:14 AM
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a memory that keeps coming back to me:

one time my parents baught home a cheeseburger and some fries for me (while they had a hamburger)

they knew I didn't like cheese, and as I bit in to it, I started to feel really sick

I turned to my mom and said I don't think I can eat this burger

and she turned to me and went well, you'll have to starve then. their isn't anything else

maybe not the worst thing said to me, but it's pretty bad as I constantly remember it
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