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(((mountainstream))), it can be hard to talk about triggers, especially when triggered. Honestly, what you ended up doing is something I did myself, and can still do if I am triggered and having a bad day.
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I can find triggers everywhere without even thinking of them. I try to read or do crafts to get my mind off of them. Sometimes it helps. Please write again when you feel able mountainstream.
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“Happy Birthday” is a big trigger for me. Long story short, someone wished me a happy birthday when my family wouldn’t. Then when my family didn’t she stood up to them and told them they what they were doing was wrong. She passed away a few years later. Since her passing Hearing “Hearing Happy” birthday is a problem. I wont even let my children say it to me. It reminds me of the child abuse and the memory of idolizing someone who argued i should be treated better.
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I don't celebrate birthdays at all honestly, for me, it's just another number. it's another year of failing, another year of sadness, and another year trying to act happy about well..... **** all I don't respond to "happy bbirthday", because their is just nothing to be happy about |
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as for talking about triggers, yes, it's difficult
on tuesday I was triggered really badly by something that happened in a tv show (and it triggered my most intense fear), I blamed myself partly for it too I wanted to come here and post about it, but I felt I couldn't I couldn't even make a thread to delete it later but it's still bothering me, so maybe I will post. about it |
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If it's not too triggering for you then it may be helpful to post it and maybe someone will have some input that you may find helpful. raging vortex
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thank you, open eyes I guess I am waiting until I have words formed in my head, rather than post about it without proper sentences |
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This is why I always used to be so “quiet” - some of my worst triggers, for whatever reason.. are not to be talked about. If I do talk about them, and these triggers are not from anything I did “wrong” - I often regret it
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