Coping with anxiety, panic, and feeling like I was punched

Fuzzybear · Oct 30, 2017 at 03:37 PM

I think almost everyone here has felt the anger you’re describing

(if they are honest)

I agree with purple’s suggestion

You can PM me any time too (and I’ll delete anything you send after replying)

Oct 30, 2017 at 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue

We're all with you. I've certainly felt the anger you're describing. Would it help if you posted the email you're thinking of sending? Or PM'd it to a member? I'd be happy to read it and immediately delete.

I'm not trying to talk you out of sending it. But it is a form of contact with him, so it might be best to make sure you want that.

TY, Purple for the offer, that was very sweet of you.

Though I heard from him. Now he's saying that we didn't have enough common ground, which is total BS!!!!! We had plenty of common ground. Why did we even get engaged then?????? I wrote him back already, confronting him on some of his lies, and on this issue. The real truth is, he doesn't have his life together enough, that was the real issue.

Oct 30, 2017 at 03:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

I think almost everyone here has felt the anger you’re describing

(if they are honest)

I agree with purple’s suggestion

You can PM me any time too (and I’ll delete anything you send after replying)

Aww, thank you Fuzzy! You're so sweet, too, to offer.

I am enraged. What total BS. I never should have gotten engaged to him.

Purple,Violet,Blue · Oct 30, 2017 at 04:02 PM

Sorry he had such a useless response. He has to make excuses, really, for himself.

Grrrr.... as Fuzzy would say.

Bug hug to you, dear person.

divine1966 · Oct 30, 2017 at 07:13 PM

Well you could tell him “ok our relationship isn’t working, now when can I expect my 10k back?” If he thought you two aren’t compatible then why the heck he took your money!!!!! Ask him that. Seems like not having common ground didnt stop him from using you. Wtf

Sure you don’t have enough common ground. He is homeless unemployed addicted moocher while you aren’t any of that. Tell him that you agree with him on that!

Loser

Oct 31, 2017 at 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Purple,Violet,Blue

Sorry he had such a useless response. He has to make excuses, really, for himself.

Grrrr.... as Fuzzy would say.

Bug hug to you, dear person.

thank you, Purple.

Yes, a totally useless response, excuses and BS. I am still shaking from all of my anger.

Oct 31, 2017 at 05:57 AM

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Originally Posted by divine1966

Well you could tell him “ok our relationship isn’t working, now when can I expect my 10k back?” If he thought you two aren’t compatible then why the heck he took your money!!!!! Ask him that. Seems like not having common ground didnt stop him from using you. Wtf

Sure you don’t have enough common ground. He is homeless unemployed addicted moocher while you aren’t any of that. Tell him that you agree with him on that!

Loser

I know!!!! I should have said those things to him!!!! I DID confront him on his lies and told him he's a pathological liar and con artist.

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Fuzzybear Wisest Elder Ever Member Since Nov 2002 Location: Cave. Posts: 96,331 (SuperPoster!) 21 81.2k hugs given	Oct 30, 2017 at 03:37 PM #41 I think almost everyone here has felt the anger you’re describing (if they are honest) I agree with purple’s suggestion You can PM me any time too (and I’ll delete anything you send after replying) __________________
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Purple,Violet,Blue Magnate Member Since Sep 2017 Location: Britain Posts: 2,899 6 10.3k hugs given	Oct 30, 2017 at 04:02 PM #44 Sorry he had such a useless response. He has to make excuses, really, for himself. Grrrr.... as Fuzzy would say. Bug hug to you, dear person.
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