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When I was in Jr High a girl who rode our bus had an accident while sitting in her seat and waiting for her stop.
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That was so horrible to do to someone. Maybe she didn't know at that time.
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I used to always sit on the first row of the school bus in kindergarten and first grade. One day I threw up all over the steps... and had to endure all the kids complaining and being grossed out as they exited the bus... they had to literally jump over it.. while I sat in the front seat waiting to go back home. Ugh. Being a kid is tough.
Wow! I'm sorry that happened to you!
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In middle school, I was bullied a lot, mainly by these 3 girls. One day my bag wasn't on the peg in the cloakroom and I was looking all over for it and when I went around the back into the toilet area, my bag was in the sink and the tap running. Maybe the bullies didn't realise the bag was waterproof so it was pretty pointless. I assumed it was the 3 girls, because they were the main ones at the time.

Then another time, I went into the cloakroom at breaktime and these 3 girls were hanging around near my bag with a very suspicious look on their faces, especially the "main" one (the one that seemed to be in a charge and the other 2 just followed). I knew they were up to something, it was obvious, and I wondered if they were going to put my bag in the sink again, maybe this time open it, or even worse put it in the toilet.

Then the bell rang and we all went to class. Then at lunchtime after lunch, I went to my bag to get my sweets and they were gone. It was so obvious it was the 3 girls, and that's obviously what they had done when they were standing around looking suspicious. I told the teacher and of course they denied it so I got told off for "accusing them". The teacher was standing between me and them, and when she turned around to tell me off the girls started laughing silently and making gestures. When the teacher turned around, they pretended to look innocent.

Oh how I hated those girls.
I'm sorry that happened to you! I been bullied a lot.
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That was so horrible to do.

Pretty mild compared to some of the crap I did when I was that age.


Probably the most evil think I ever did as a kid was made another kid's life a living hell over a Magic: The Gathering card.


See, thanks to my worthless cumdumpster of a mom lying to the police telling them I assaulted her all because I finally got tired of her lies and abuse (and had the courage to stand up to her!) having me carted away in handcuffs as a 10 year old, I ended up in the foster care system for a couple years.


While there, since I didn't have my precious books and video games, I took a liking to trading cards (Magic: The Gathering and YuGiOh). Me and one of the foster kids would scrounge up change and go to garage sales and flea markets and find cheap cards for sale. I lucked out and stumbled upon the Black Lotus card that somebody threw out in a garage sale for $2, which is considered to be the rarest and most powerful card to date. In fact, the card can run between $1,000 to well over 10 grand depending on it's condition.


Anyways, we had a group of people we would play cards with and we later started playing for each other's rarest card. One day, I decided I would play my foster brother for his card and lost. He won my Black Lotus as a result. I proceeded to beat the **** out of him until he was crying begging me to stop. When the foster parent found out what happened, he took all of our cards away. I then, tormented him every single day when the foster parent left for work. I would verbally harass him because he was a crybaby. I would tell him nobody loved him and his family didn't want him back. I made his life a living hell for daring to take my precious cards away because of his pathetic whining. This lasted until he was discharged several months later.


People prob think I was a monster but the foster kids that were with me before him treated me the same way all because I'm white and they were black, and my mother flat out abandoned me to the system so I gave zero ****s at that point.



You try to take away one of the few things that bring me joy after everything else has been taken from me I will make you suffer. Simple as that.
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About 10 years ago I was out shopping with some people. While we were walking around, I thought I saw something small and dark drop from one of them. It was from the corner of my eye so didn't see properly and couldn't see it on the floor. It was very busy, loads of people and thought it could have been anything. So I forgot about it.

Then the next day this person said they had lost something. A small object which could have been what I saw drop. I then felt really bad, was conviced it was that, but never saw anything.

I tried to make excuses to myself:
- This person was quite scatterbrained and could have lost the object anywhere
- What I saw could have been anything
- It wasn't on the floor so it must have got kicked away very quickly
- Even if I had known, could I have done anything? It was very busy and it could have been kicked a long way away in any direction, impossible to find

Still feel bad now really. They never did find that thing. So I've convinced myself that it was that I saw.

I have to forgive myself because I really didn't know and it's over now and in the past. There's nothing I can do about it.
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The bad thing I did in 2010, I did it again 5 years later, though I didn't take it so far so it turned out OK. Well nowhere near as bad as the first time. I'm always beating myself up about it. Would have been bad enough if I'd only done it once, but to try again, knowing full well what would happen, that was just stupid. But it's in the past, nothing I can do about it. Can't change the past, the damage is done now and I have to accept that, forgive myself and move on.

Also there is another person I'm struggling to forgive and move on from, because he is still around. I don't want to talk about what happened, and really it wasn't "to me" but it has affected me very negatively. He caused the problems I have today, although it was my own fault for letting this spiral out of control.
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when I was a kid, a friend took me on a bucking bronco

she said that the cowgirl has to come with me on the bronco, or I couldn't go on it

I was so angry with her I said to her look... are you trying to restrict me?. I can handle a ****ing bronco on my own, I don't need a woman dressed up as a cowgirl to come on with me

eventually I didn't go on it because she wouldn't let me go alone, and we fell out after the bronco insident

this same friend also got me a stick on tattoo

I wanted a pirate one on my arm (shiver me timbers), but she ended up getting me a snake

I was so ****ing mad at her

I'm not too old to like pirates. I will never be too old to like pirates
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I was bullied most of the time at school. There was another girl who was also bullied a lot for being overweight. I didn't care about peoples' weights so we became friends. In fact at some points I was the only one not making fun of her.

After school she went to uni, I didn't, so we didn't see each other. Then I randomly met her when I was out shopping and we talked for a bit. She said that she was a lot happier since she left school. She said she found out what real friends are, and "that none of them were from high school"

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Back when I made fake people up my forum, I didn't always keep them there. Sometimes I posted as them on other forums, mostly that was rarely. But once I decided to use one account a lot on another forum. The admin found out and told me when I was saying something on a thread.

She said it was the same IP address, which I hadn't thought about! So the other forums I was on, they probably noticed there too. I felt so embarrassed. I had to leave that site where I was found out.
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Back when I made fake people up my forum, I didn't always keep them there. Sometimes I posted as them on other forums, mostly that was rarely. But once I decided to use one account a lot on another forum. The admin found out and told me when I was saying something on a thread.

She said it was the same IP address, which I hadn't thought about! So the other forums I was on, they probably noticed there too. I felt so embarrassed. I had to leave that site where I was found out.


happened to me many, many times

most of the time I don't even know (did)

I remember on one site the admin banned me after finding out that I was using 2 accounts- and when he messaged me about it, I told him that it wasn't me- of course it wasn't.. why would I do that?

he banned me in.. I think late 2012

in 2016, I heard from friends that that site was closing- and knew that I had to get back on their (despite having no accounts)

I managed to rejoin, but was very apprihensive- especially after I saw the same admin that banned me was still their

the first day he wrote to me... you know this site well, have you been here before?

I'm like no.... course not, I'm stacy- never been on this site

well, he didn't question it again and I stayed on until the website closed

but now it's closed I'm going to tell him.

he can't do anything to me... the website doesnt exist
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