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randomer123
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Member Since: Aug 2018
Location: Nowhere
Posts: 838
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#841
I had a lot to do today but I don't think I can do it all. I will just have to accept that some of it will have to wait until tomorrow.
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avlady, TunedOut
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Marylin
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Member Since: Feb 2015
Location: England,UK
Posts: 3,017
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#842
Got rejected by my niece and narc sister!My niece don't want to be close with me and my narc sis wants to keep us apart she wants me isolated.My niece told her mum she can't say no cos she's scared to upset me then she gets upset cos she's agreed to meet me!So I told my niece I wasn't gonna ask to see her or message her I will only see her if she suggests it and I won't message her either!I don't think my niece cares that I am all alone or about my well being.I think my narc sis finds it easier to control her daughter if I am not close to her and if I see less of my niece my narc sister thinks she can manipulate me more into helping her care for our elderly infirm blind mother.I guess I have to let go of my niece and know when I'm not wanted!
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avlady, TunedOut
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Marylin
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Member Since: Feb 2015
Location: England,UK
Posts: 3,017
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#843
I am not going to text narc everyday or visit my mum often.I have spent my whole life living up to the family needs.I am putting myself first from now on.
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avlady, TunedOut
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randomer123
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Member Since: Aug 2018
Location: Nowhere
Posts: 838
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#844
I will be very busy this afternoon, so I'm trying to get all other things done this morning. Most things, I can't do yet though, and it's causing some frustration. Trying to stay calm. I can probably do some of these things tomorrow if I have to.
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avlady, TunedOut
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Ravenhairedwolf
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Member Since: Aug 2019
Location: United States
Posts: 10
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#845
I’d say a 7 out of 10. I am trying to stay positive in-spite of feeling really lonely and wanting physical affection. I’m also battling a new phobia and I am trying really hard not to beat myself up for not being over it. I’m really eager to make progress but I don’t see my therapist for another week.
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avlady, TunedOut
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Amethyst_Stargazer
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Member Since: Oct 2016
Location: Florida USA
Posts: 365
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#846
1 out of 10, I feel like a 6, mainly because of my headache.
I may take a nap later on to see if it subsides. Right now I'm drinking plenty of water and took something for the pain. I often get them after it rains. |
avlady, MickeyCheeky
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jaexlee0903
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Member Since: Aug 2019
Location: Asia
Posts: 2
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#848
I haven't been feeling well lately. I feel like I'm happy when I'm supposed to be sad, and I'm sad when I am supposed to be happy. And I find it difficult to control my emotions, including anger as well. Feeling rather disappointed with myself.
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Tiredmom19
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Member Since: Aug 2019
Location: Texas- USA
Posts: 16
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#849
I’m on autopilot. My emotions are flat and I can only seem to feel anger and irritation.
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avlady
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Member Since: Jan 2013
Location: angola ny
Posts: 9,786
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#851
I am going to have to leave the dishes in the sink until my husband gets home, still more laundry to be done. I hope to get to that before he gets home. I don't have any sort of career but to be a homemaker, hard to even find time without housework to be done. I knit, play piano and am trying to learn the flute. I also attend a senior center group that gives me joy to help these people out and become fiends with them. I did geta Bachelors degree in arts but was disabled in an accident, so there went my career. i can't drive either.Well i hope someday i can hit the lottery because i want a whole new wardrobe as mine now is terrible.
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princesscookie19
Currently nOT IN THE MOOD
Member Since: Aug 2019
Location: Ireland
Posts: 459
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#852
went for lunch ,had a "chopped" salad in a bowl. Then went to Easons to buy a short stories book.. Enjoying today and this weekend Ill be very busy .going to the cinema and knitting club feeling loved -Sorry about my vocabrely Im learning french aswell.
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Marylin
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Member Since: Feb 2015
Location: England,UK
Posts: 3,017
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#853
Coping better today for the first time in several weeks.I made progress with decluttering.I took 10 fiction books and donated them.Gave an old tv to tv recycling.Got a box of crockery,drinking mugs and kitchen equipment packed ready for someone to collect tomorrow.Arranged for man with van to take some broken stuff to the tip!.
I am pleased and hopefully I can tidy and organise and get rid of more stuff.I am assessing stuff by if I use it or not if I don't use it I am getting rid of. So yes did well today did better than just cope. |
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Mendingmysoul
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Member Since: Aug 2019
Location: Here
Posts: 907
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#854
Trying to figure out how to cope.
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randomer123
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Member Since: Aug 2018
Location: Nowhere
Posts: 838
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#856
Very well, didn't get nervous when I tried to do something. In the past I would have been to nervous to even look. So that was good. And now I'm trying to fit things into this afternoon and tonight. But I have tomorrow, Sunday and Monday to do these things too. So no rush.
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bpforever1
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Member Since: Aug 2017
Location: earth
Posts: 2,063
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#857
I'm doing well and am trying to focus on moving out of my apartment. I have to move by next Thursday. I am taking it easy still! Oh no!
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NoahsArk30
Member Since: Jun 2016
Location: Where the sidewalk ends
Posts: 35,842
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#859
I Drank a lot of caffeine to keep me going. But I made it and stayed at work. So I guess I coped well at work. I needed an emergency session with my therapist. I still think I did ok.
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zapatoes
Looking for my way
Member Since: Sep 2018
Location: Islandia
Posts: 4,263
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#860
Really worked on focusing at work and have a tendency to procrastinate and think “oh I’ll get to that”. Have to focus and did that and hoping to meet goal this month. Feel like I’m somewhat ADHD and then almost OCD other times, frustrating, also depression and anxiety are there, but when I’m intent on finishing something, look out. Like to escape through work and not deal with other things in life, but really want a life. Will work on getting “a life.”
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