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Mar 07, 2019 at 05:13 PM
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I'm at the ICU and have been for the past three days. My girlfriend was having surgery to fix her aneurysm. Something went terribly wrong in the surgery and induced in a coma. Today they tried to wake her up but the pressure in her head was too high so they put her back in the coma.
I'm preparing for the worst, it's hurting so bad. My kids are sad and staying with their gramps for the weekend. I'm staying at the hospital but the drs say they won't try anything until after the weekend. I'm afraid of being left alone, afraid of going home, lost and no one to really talk to. Any support would be awesome. |
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Mar 07, 2019 at 05:43 PM
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 My best wishes to you & your girlfriend. 
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Mar 07, 2019 at 06:49 PM
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I am so sorry, I’ll be thinking about you both and praying for the best outcome. Many hugs to you.
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Mar 07, 2019 at 07:16 PM
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I am so sorry. Hoping for the best. DEXATI20160618200322.jpeg
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Mar 07, 2019 at 08:30 PM
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Thank you, keep the well wishes coming. I fear the worst is coming. My intuition is pulling on me but I'm keeping my heart in it.
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Mar 07, 2019 at 09:09 PM
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Mar 07, 2019 at 11:35 PM
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I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you. I've been there.
Hoping for the best.
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Mar 08, 2019 at 03:34 AM
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My thoughts are with you. Nothing can really express my empathy correctly on here..
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