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Default Feb 22, 2019 at 08:28 AM
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Is it creepy or odd to send flowers to someone you don't know? I have a huge crush on a waitress and I can't get her attention. Will this scare her away?

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Default Feb 22, 2019 at 09:05 AM
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It would probably be a little odd if you don't really know her. Do you make small talk?
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Default Feb 22, 2019 at 09:11 AM
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I don't think it's creepy at all, cool09! I think it's a very nice gesture. That's just my opinion though. I may be completely wrong. Do you know her personally? Does she know who you are? Maybe that could help. Remember that every person is different. Perhaps she'll love them! The only way to know for sure is to sedn them to her. I'd give it a try if you can. You have nothing to lose, after all. The worst thing she can do is ignore them. Although I understand that'd hurt you very much. But I think it's worth giving it a try if you want to catch her attention. Perhaps you could send a note attached to the flowers, if you can. Do you plan on revealing that you send them to her or do you want to keep it a secret? Either way, I hope she'll appreciate your kind gesture. I hope things will get better soon for you. Is there anything we can do to help you? Please let us know. Remember that we're here for you if you need it. Feel free to PM me anytime. Let me know if I can do something to help you. Wish you good luck! Let us know how it goes. Sending many hugs to you
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send the flowers! what is the worst thing that could happen?
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