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Old 02-16-2019, 03:41 PM #11
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And have you ever reached out to PC before for one of those help funds?
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And have you ever reached out to PC before for one of those help funds?
I don't know what you are talking about. I haven't got the letter yet, they said they didn't receive my check Friday. Still a work in progress, I have til Tuesday.
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I don't know what you are talking about. I haven't got the letter yet, they said they didn't receive my check Friday. Still a work in progress, I have til Tuesday.
If you are in financial trouble, you can ask PC members to collect some funds for you. I have my own views on that but Iíll keep it myself. But thatís what poster above mentioned
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That is what I was referring to.
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I was hoping to inspire you to think outside of the box and not feel trapped by your mom's will/desires/guilt trips and can't do's.
I've watched such things transpire irl with a couple of individuals and it's very difficult to watch from the outside.
I reflect back on my mom's words when I was in my early 20s and for me, it was better to have the rift and my own seething resentment to her at various points in time than to have been used as her emotional/financial crutch. It's such a gray area because she had her finer points as well.
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I don't need help stretched this month. I should be back to normal next month.
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Got the letter I needed, just a few more docs needed. But the letter was of utmost importance.
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Awesome!
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