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Default Mar 26, 2019 at 12:23 PM
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I’m tired of walking on eggshells around people so as not to trigger them. I try to be myself but also respectful of others. The birth family didn’t model this for me so I’ve learnt it the very hard way. Maybe I’m a “bad” person since I don’t always muzzle myself and keep quiet as I was taught to do....by “family”

I know myself quite well I think, a few people over time have accused me of being a “bad” person.. the Narcissistic family and other people who projected things onto me. I don’t think that many people are either all “good” or all “bad”.

I think most humans want to be good at their core.

Is it becoming more common out in the world to cut someone dead at a social event after literally a minute?

I thought I had done a good job of shaving my fur off

I was polite and respectful and quiet

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Default Mar 26, 2019 at 01:08 PM
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You're a good person, Fuzzybear Unfortunately not everyone will accept us and love us for who we truly are. But we have to keep trying! I'm sure you'll be able to find people who love you and respect you for the strong and wonderful bear that you truly are, Fuzzybear! Don't worry too much about what others may think of you. You're trying your best to be a good person and that's what matters the most! That's all we can do really. We can just try to do our best at life. Keep fighting, Fuzzybear! You're a strong, wonderful bear! Sending many hugs to you, Fuzzybear
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