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Default Apr 14, 2019 at 01:52 PM
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A song I’m listening to inspired this question.

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Nope.
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Hmm, I have a tendency to be a people pleaser. But now I’m working on doing things for myself.
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Default Apr 15, 2019 at 03:42 AM
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I used to before I learned about boundaries and managing my expectations.

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embarrassingly enough I have no idea what this means.

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Default Apr 15, 2019 at 07:26 AM
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embarrassingly enough I have no idea what this means.

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10 Signs You're Putting Other People on Pedestals
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Good article choice. Interesting focus on being raised in a narcisstic home.

To answer, do I put others on pedestals, I think what transpired in my teen years with the major rift between my father and myself, led to not doing that very much, if at all.
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Being raised in a Narcissistic home yes this applies to me

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Default Apr 17, 2019 at 08:12 AM
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Very interesting. I have some similarities and dissimilarities. Only questions 7 and 10 for me, were my issues with having had narcissism in my FOO and well...others.

Evidently, different personalities cope with the situation differently.

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I used to before I learned about boundaries and managing my expectations.


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