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I deal with envy by trying to be successful myself
A manager came in after being at another store for a month. She looked amazing and said she had lost 25 pounds by eating a low carb diet. I felt kind of envious because I had put on 15 pounds. So I said to myself “why don’t you give this low carb diet a shot?” And it seems to be working because my pants are now falling off. So I just found a solution to better my own situation instead of getting envious that she looked good and I didn’t. __________________ Ridin' with Biden |
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#42
Why not focus on building friendships or simply some type of social circle? Do you have friends? Plenty of time to have relationships . Plus many relationships start with friendship first
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Because the point is, that no one loves fat. No one loves mental. No one loves ones living with their parents
Just let me use that math analogy again and you'll see that these three things make the chances equal to zero. Regarding friendship, I do have friends. But all of them are guys. |
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I’d say at 30 living with parents might be a turn off. At 18 is very common. Attending college etc many live with parents. Overweight is relative. Maybe after living in the Midwest my concept of overweight is skewed. Ton of people are heavier than average. Mental health illness is certainly making it more difficult to date.
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Actually, I don't really understand what's my problem. I mean, does all of it really affects finding a right woman? I'm thinking of it this way: if the person loves you for not who you are, but for what you have (good body shape, money, etc.), why would I even date with this person? There's no chances for strong relationships in this case, I think. Because it's more looks to me like a marketplace relationships. You give money, and somebody gives you a product/service.
But does the love work this way? Is there even a place for statements like "I love him for six abs", or "I love him for his Ferrari"? I don't think so. I don't love others for anything except themselves. You can say that if I think this way, why won't I just look out for a fat girl? That's logically right, but there's something I need to say. The love between man and woman is not only soul-to-soul love. It's also about body-to-body love. And I can't build truly relationships with a person who I don't want to have intimacy with. I don't really like fat girls. But, I see a lot of couples, in which one of them is fat. I didn't say "ugly". Just fat. I know some girls who love fat guys, and I know some guys who love fat girls. So my best bet is, probably, to find a girl who loves my body as it is. |
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