[Aviza]

Okay so I've been on lots of dates. I broke up with guy who wanted to be my boyfriend after two dates. He was nice but a self described slow learner. I've been on 3 dates with a moroccan guy I was attracted to but am no longer interested in him, he doesn't ommunicate.

I gave a first date guy a chance and kind of like him but am not sure he stared at me alot. I'm better looking than him so I don't know if I should go on a 3rd date or not. We get looked at lot, and he takes me on nice dates. But the telling me I'm beautiful over and over, and staring at me during the movie he took me on have me wonder.

The guy I do like knows too much about me and has told me he's not looking for anything serious. Because of what he found out. He's cute, smart, and well I like him, but he doesn't want anything serious with me. No clue what to do there but I guess I should give up talking to him.

I'm on pof and well there's a few I haven't met yet but it seems I've gone through this group. Last group was texters/scammers. I'd like to find a stable boyfriend.

Originally Posted by Aviza

Okay so I've been on lots of dates. I broke up with guy who wanted to be my boyfriend after two dates. He was nice but a self described slow learner. I've been on 3 dates with a moroccan guy I was attracted to but am no longer interested in him, he doesn't ommunicate.

I gave a first date guy a chance and kind of like him but am not sure he stared at me alot. I'm better looking than him so I don't know if I should go on a 3rd date or not. We get looked at lot, and he takes me on nice dates. But the telling me I'm beautiful over and over, and staring at me during the movie he took me on have me wonder.

The guy I do like knows too much about me and has told me he's not looking for anything serious. Because of what he found out. He's cute, smart, and well I like him, but he doesn't want anything serious with me. No clue what to do there but I guess I should give up talking to him.

I'm on pof and well there's a few I haven't met yet but it seems I've gone through this group. Last group was texters/scammers. I'd like to find a stable boyfriend.

Because of what he found out?

[sarahsweets]

Hey @Aviza if the man you said you went out with that wasnt as good looking as you, why did you date him? It just seems kind of...cruel to do that.

[divine1966]

I am really confused on why is it a problem that he is not as good looking as you. I don’t think it’s a requirement for both people being equally good (or bad) looking. If you aren’t attracted to him, then of course don’t date him

If you are looking for a stable boyfriend, I suggest you refrain from sex on the first few dates and certainly not on a first date. Men who are on a look out for a serious relationship will not have sex with a stranger. Look for a man who will date you until he gets to know you, which definitely is more than few dates. That’s how you weed out the ones who just want casual sex.

I am not sure about pof. I think it’s most a hook up site. Mostly for young people looking for casual encounters. Maybe that’s changed

[Aviza]

I picked him because he has a phd. He's intelligent, his kids are around my daughters age but older. He has a good job, a house, etc. But people stare at us when we are out together. It bugs me. And he was staring at me during the movie, which creeped me out. I think he looks fine, he's older, but people stare. I feel like a trophy not a person. Been there doesn't make for a solid relationship. All they care about is how you look and I may grow old I'm closer at 45 than I was at 19 but it's a concern.