[Fuzzybear]

There are a few people who perceive me as a “nasty person” and they show that in subtle or not so subtle ways.
If I was a “nasty person” whatever that means. Maybe I would be indifferent to that. Rather than being sad at what is a repeating pattern of blame and indifference that my parental units always showed to me

Has anyone else experienced this? people who don’t even know you judging you? It’s not a good feeling.

What really makes me sad is that the parental units didn’t try to know me, or to care

Maybe it’s more likely that some people don’t like my openness, about some things. I don’t know. It doesn’t matter. But I matter. I’m not an object to project disowned “stuff” onto

(not about anyone on pc)

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

There are a few people who perceive me as a “nasty person” and they show that in subtle or not so subtle ways.
If I was a “nasty person” whatever that means. Maybe I would be indifferent to that. Rather than being sad at what is a repeating pattern of blame and indifference that my parental units always showed to me

Has anyone else experienced this? people who don’t even know you judging you? It’s not a good feeling.

What really makes me sad is that the parental units didn’t try to know me, or to care

Maybe it’s more likely that some people don’t like my openness, about some things. I don’t know. It doesn’t matter. But I matter. I’m not an object to project disowned “stuff” onto

(not about anyone on pc)

I feel like this all the time with my family and their friends. You are not alone. I'm sorry that you had to go through this.

[downandlonely]

There are people who don't like me. They don't like my bluntness or talkativeness and find me annoying. It hurts, but I tell myself I can't expect everyone to like me. I don't like everyone either.

[Rohag]

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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear

people who don’t even know you judging you?

I have experienced this.
That is, in the days when I was far more engaged with the world than I am now, I experienced it.

Sometimes it hurt. Other times it just seemed ridiculous. And other times I "swallowed" the scorn.

((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))

[Mendingmysoul]

My abusive maternal unit told everyone that I was a difficult child.Everybody believed her.So I am judged for everything.When my legs had third degree burns people some how believed I did that to myself.I had a gash in the back of my head.I somehow did that to myself. I had lice eating my scalp.I somehow did that to my self.I smelled,I starved,I wore filthy clothes with holes.I had open wounds all over my body.Every thing is my fault.People called me a bad girl because I tried to tell about a boogeyman in our neighborhood. That is a lot of judgement towards a small child.Hmmmmm.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Rohag

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I have experienced this.
That is, in the days when I was far more engaged with the world than I am now, I experienced it.

Sometimes it hurt. Other times it just seemed ridiculous. And other times I "swallowed" the scorn.

((((((( Fuzzybear )))))))

(sigh. rain umbrella)

That's what they want. They want us to ''swallow'' their poison and scorn
They are the same people who keep licking the butts of other people who give them their Narcissistic supply (thud)

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