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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 10:17 AM
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Doing well. Have had quite a few stressors the last few days but they haven't got to me.
I understand how you feel. I am going through this myself.
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I'm cooking this morning. It helps me feel better. It's quite rewarding. Doing fun things always helps me. I'll probably stay pretty active today. I plan to try some yoga later.
That sounds like a good plan.
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I'm coping okay but maybe I could be coping better. I've been anxious about some things going on in my life. I did get out of my house to get groceries. It helped distract me. And I'm going to the doctor's office later today, for a physical issue that was worrying me.

I think I'm doing my best. And I also realize I need to use my skills in this moment in time instead of checking online.
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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 04:25 PM
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I don't even know if i can cope or can allow myself to do it
I've been stuck in a nightmare and can't get out of it...
Please let me have him back
I can't believe I lost him
I used to be such a jerk.... This winter I started praying for this nightmare to end
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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 05:29 PM
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Getting better...I was upset earlier, I released the frustration from my soul. One must say “As as act of my will I choose to loose this frustration from my soul.” It works all the time...getting free from tension and life events. One can use any event (of emotion) to be free from; really helps me.

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Default Feb 18, 2020 at 05:39 PM
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This afternoon I'm not coping as well. I'm tired but forcing myself to do chores. They have to be done. It's my responsibility. At least when I mark one of the list, it helps me feel a little better.

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Default Feb 19, 2020 at 01:08 PM
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This afternoon I'm not coping as well. I'm tired but forcing myself to do chores. They have to be done. It's my responsibility. At least when I mark one of the list, it helps me feel a little better.
Hang on in there and well done on keeping up those chores!
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Default Feb 19, 2020 at 01:29 PM
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My mood is good but my main problems in terms of symptoms are being caused by my meds--drowsiness and increased appetite--and I'm struggling with these since yesterday and this has me a bit frustrated but I'm not giving into it and getting discouraged.

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Default Feb 20, 2020 at 06:53 PM
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This morning was difficult. So I slept til noon. Then I started programming. That kept my mind off of things. Now I'm trying to relax with a cup of coffee.

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Default Feb 20, 2020 at 09:28 PM
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Decided to minimize the fight or flight response. I’m distracting myself right now instead. I have relationship issues. I’m learning to accept and control my anger and frustration. This will pass. I am not in danger. It’s just unfortunate we can’t make it work.

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Attention Feb 21, 2020 at 06:11 AM
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i'm super scared and nervous, and trying not to freak out but it's not working
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I'm coping ok despite getting hardly any sleep.
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not bad so far----------------(fingers crossed emoji)

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I coped well today and had an interesting conversation about emotional resilience this afternoon which was helpful.
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Default Feb 22, 2020 at 01:59 AM
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I'm trying to cope by posting here in the Coffeehouse. It's helping some.

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So tired today, but coping ok and got everything done that was needed.
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I'm coping today by sleeping and reading when I'm up. And eating comfort food.

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I didn’t cope that badly today. For only the second time since September 2018 I didn’t take a Xanax. There was a singer on American idol who struggled with addiction and it just bothered me. I also didn’t have one on me earlier in the day when I was looking for one. I coped with my moods as well so no one really noticed them. I did ok today on the outside. Inside I feel weird.

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Default Feb 25, 2020 at 09:17 AM
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Funny old day - I have anxiety about over sleeping on work days. What this usually means is I wake too early and have disturbed sleep. I never over sleep, it's just a random anxiety I have.

Well today I overslept for the first time for real! I had to get ready in 10 minutes flat, somehow I did, and I even got a very quick breakfast.

I think this was actually good for me - like the thing I feared happened but I coped
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