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Feb 02, 2020 at 06:14 PM
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How do you ''deal'' with people who are not respectful, not caring, not honest, who are like a bush full of tainted prickles and all about themselves.
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Feb 02, 2020 at 06:22 PM
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Feb 02, 2020 at 06:30 PM
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Feb 02, 2020 at 06:39 PM
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 'A bush full of tainted prickles'. Amazing simile... It depends if ignoring / avoiding them is an option? If so, I'll do that. Love to you 
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Feb 02, 2020 at 06:47 PM
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Avoid avoid avoid. Walk away from toxic people. Don't engage.
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Feb 02, 2020 at 10:43 PM
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Many ways exist for dealing with difficult people. Avoidance is good - if possible.
Sometimes difficult people leave stubbornly persistent impressions on us. That leaves us the task of dealing with their damage and memories. 
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Feb 03, 2020 at 12:59 PM
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Feb 03, 2020 at 01:22 PM
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I try to avoid them when I can, but that's not always possible!
 We just need to manage our reactions to these people the best way we can in my opinion! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Fuzzybear, your Family, your Friends, EVERYONE HERE and ALL of your Loved Ones, ok?! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?! 
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Feb 04, 2020 at 01:55 PM
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Feb 04, 2020 at 02:15 PM
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Personally I try to avoid them. If that's not possible I try to limit my time with them. I was advised to do that by my therapist because my mother, God Rest Her Soul, was one of those.
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Feb 04, 2020 at 08:05 PM
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Feb 06, 2020 at 02:44 AM
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It depends if ignoring / avoiding them is an option? If so, I'll do that.
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Feb 06, 2020 at 11:20 AM
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