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Feb 12, 2020 at 04:14 PM
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[Please excuse me for any mistake in english. Also, this post has no purpose. I just want to let it out...]
never say this, because it's just a useless rant, but for the first time in my life I see... that I didn't deserved what has happened to me in the last years of my life. I look at it trying to be fair, and yes i made mistakes, but I used to be overall a good, helpful, working person. Maybe not really intelligent and enough goal oriented to build a stable career I lost control and everything went down so much... especially on the working side. And i lost a person i wanted in my life and gave too much to the wrong ones. And yet I know it's just my fault I find it hard to get back on my knees in this situation. I wish my family was more supportive. I love them, but in my worst moments they were just standing there watching at it. I wish I had control back but it's not going to happen. I'm under-qualified for my age and struggling. Before 2017, I was lucky enough to had quite a stamina and wanted to even go back to school but then failed to grip When I was younger i used to be a working girl and so proud of it Well... at least it was Last edited by Gasplessy; Feb 12, 2020 at 04:34 PM.. |
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Feb 12, 2020 at 05:41 PM
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Hi Gasplessy I am sorry you are feeling so low and down right now. Please try not to be so hard on yourself, and don't use phrases like I will never be anything. Life can be a challenge, that's for sure and we pretty much all have to learn how to deal with life challenges pretty much all our lives.
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Feb 13, 2020 at 01:22 PM
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It is NOT your fault you ended up in this situation, @Gasplessy! You certainly didn't ask for it!
Definitely agree with ALL the other wise and wonderful posters. Be kind to yourself. I am sure you'll be able to find something and build a meaningul Life - at your own Time and Pace. No need to hurry. Take baby steps. Are you seeing a Therapist right now? If you aren't, perhaps it's worth considering! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @Gasplessy, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!     
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Feb 15, 2020 at 05:16 PM
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Thank you very much for your kind replies!
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