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Aug 11, 2020 at 07:35 PM
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i have been talking to myself for most of my life and i just realized that while doing it i find myself defending my abusers i now noticed when i talk to myself i hear myself making excuses for why i desereve to be abused and i want to know what is that considered when you talk to yourself and while doing it you are telling yourself why your abuser deserves to abuse you cause i find myself repeating the abusive dialoge that the abuser said to me for example if my abuser said to me " the reason why you lost the game is cause god has control not man" then when im alone i will start telling myself that same thing that person told me and i will go on for hours doing this ehat should i do about that and what is that called in psychology
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Aug 11, 2020 at 09:36 PM
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Hi devinegirl34. Welcome to Psych Central. I am so sorry that you are a victim of abuse. No one deserves to be abused.
You might find these helpful in understanding the predicament a person is in who is being manipulated and abused The Strong Victim: Why Victims of Abuse Stay 11 Signs You're the Victim of Narcissistic Abuse Why Victims of Abuse Stay with Their Abusive, Narcissistic, or Borderline Partner and What to do About It Why Do We Love an Abuser? __________________ Super Moderator Community Support Team "Things Take Time" |
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