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I’m cracking. I’m severely depressed. COVID has gotten to me along with my unemployment and marital issues.
I really don’t have the strength anymore. I want to go to sleep and wake up in a different life. I need far more strength to get through this. And I’m afraid it’s gone __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes Last edited by Have Hope; Sep 22, 2020 at 06:55 PM.. |
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Hey @Have Hope hang on.. you are not alone in this.
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Tough times isn’t it. There is a thread in some sub forum on PC where people share positives of the pandemics, You got to be kidding me. Positives? And I am in general a positive person but there is nothing positive in Covid!!!!
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I know I'm not alone, though it feels that way due to the isolation. I know MANY are struggling. It's all over the news, and I see it on Facebook with some friends. It's SO hard right now. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes Last edited by Have Hope; Sep 23, 2020 at 05:59 AM.. |
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It IS tough times, all around. I am generally positive too, but lately I haven't been feeling that way and it's making it harder for myself. I can't seem to snap out of it. Receiving job rejections doesn't help, nor does not hearing back from an employer after I've applied. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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Have Hope, time heals. I have been in your situation where I was going through a divorce and lost my job at the same time. I weathered the storm by depending on my family and learning a new language to keep myself busy. It has been about ten years since these tumultuous times, I can vouch that life improves if you find ways to heal yourself and stay away from trouble. As you know, I have poor judgment at times with men and other issues. This poor judgment has gotten me in trouble. However, I have learned from my mistakes and am happier now. I am focusing on my life now and surviving. I am living a life now which is better than I expected because I found a job that has helped me to become independent. So, please persevere! I believe, you will live in the light again one day and look back at your past as just a period through which you overcame and survived! I say give yourself a few years to recover fully. Hopefully, you will bounce back soon but don't rush your recovery if you need the time to heal
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I think for me, my world has just all caved in at once and I am overwhelmed by how much I am dealing with simultaneously. I am leaning on friends and family when I can, but I am trying to also not overwhelm them with my problems. There's only so much others can do. I do lean on one girlfriend the most, and at least once per week we talk at length on the phone. That helps. Therapy helps. And keeping myself as busy as possible helps. Dealing with COVID, along with unemployment, a grueling job search, strained finances, and periodically arising marital issues is proving to be very draining for me, and I am depressed. I fight through that depression each and every day. It's just tough right now all around - COVID has presented all sorts of problems for people across the globe, and many are seriously suffering. The political atmosphere is not helping either. I am really on edge regarding the upcoming US election.... not to get into politics on here, but it's most upsetting for me too. It's just not a good situation right now, and fighting through depression is very exhausting. It's hard to keep up the fight every single day. It's hard to remain positive every single day. Some days are better than others. Some days I feel relatively Ok and I can battle through, and other days, I crumble and want to crawl into my bed for the day. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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HaveHope, have you ever heard the term "Dark night of the Soul"?
Personally, I see it as part of our old way of being as dying off or purging out. This allows for a glorious transformation to occur if you allow it. While horrible to go thru, in hindsight, you will see it was worth it. My own journey has been one of deep transformation. I've been brought to my knees many times, but all that pain has brought me to a place of grace, deep empathy, and a spiritual journey I absolutely love. All this while dealing with being bipolar since my teens (not fun) and mostly unmedicated (again not fun). It has been an incredibly difficult painfilled life, in so many ways felt like a lifelong Dark night of the Soul. I can still cry when I think back on some of my most painful times, but they are tears of empathy for what I went thru, not tears of sorrow. But I reap the rewards today. Dark nights of the Soul are always worth it (in the end). |
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Thank you. This helps me more than you know. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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Yes can relate to feeling alone now, worried about job security, tired of Covid and restrictions.
Sometimes watch my favorite tv shows sometimes and have started playing piano again. Last edited by zapatoes; Sep 29, 2020 at 12:20 AM.. |
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Hang in there. It's great you started playing piano! __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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Update: I go through ups and downs, but I feel a lot better since I started this thread. Some days are better than others.
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Glad to hear you are doing better. I too was worried about the elections early on. There were rumors that something catastrophic was going to happen, but as we get closer I am not seeing any signs of anything major. I didn't watch them but I heard the debates were kind of a dud. The closer we get to the holidays the more I hope we all find some commonality and stop the bickering in the country and the world for a while.
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I am still VERY worried about the election. I watched the debate the other night and was not impressed or happy about it at all. I am not for Trump at all. I do not have high hopes of our country. It's very discouraging. __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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I too am struggling with trying to cope in this new world. My Wife recently asked for a separation, and that she doesn't think she can be fully happy in our marriage. Which I do get, but living on my own, picking my kids up for visitation weekends always felt like something other people did. But I am struggling with trying to find the positives. I know I need to do a LOT of personal work, but I simply can't find the motivation...
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And once again I’m down again. Very down. I’m in bed and want the nightmare to end. My husband and I fought this morning, for the first time in months. Everything is wearing on me today. My only bright spot is a couple upcoming interviews. But right now, I’m crying and am in bed, feeling very sorrowful and tired of the battles.
To top it off, this forum seems really slow and dead lately. Is PC slowly dying? __________________ "Twenty-five years and my life is still trying to get up that great big hill of hope for a destination" ~4 Non Blondes |
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I'm really sorry that you are so down, Have Hope. |
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I wonder if it has to do with the sale? Or maybe behind the scenes their were disputes between members or others ? __________________ "I carried a watermelon?" President of the no F's given society. |
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