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Nov 03, 2020 at 07:31 PM
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They are so boring.
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Nov 03, 2020 at 08:02 PM
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I just read an old message from a friend who said ''I won't assume I have a right understanding of what you mean''....
 This was only part of the message. I had sent this person a message which said ''I disagree with myself''... 
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Nov 03, 2020 at 10:16 PM
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Nov 04, 2020 at 06:37 PM
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The Narcissist loves to talk about him or herself and doesn't give you a chance to take part in a two way conversation.
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Nov 04, 2020 at 10:37 PM
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I'm sorry you are struggling with this person. I don't know what the whole story is, I know you like to be enigmatic, but my advice is to have as little contact as possible. You know their behavior, so expect it and just ignore them. I know that doesn't settle with the side of us that wants justice, but our goal is to live well and be happy - revenge or justice doesn't always go hand in hand with our own recovery from their abuse and having a great life. __________________  What if I fall? Oh, my dear, but what if you fly? Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia. Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less... |
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Nov 04, 2020 at 11:38 PM
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 Maybe after a nights sleep it won't bother me as much.  These rigid, controlling, passive aggressive people do make us feel that we are such a burden to them grrrr. I don't have much contact with them any more, which is a good thing I guess (except for the above mentioned person who is generally kinder )
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Nov 05, 2020 at 08:28 PM
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I do not care for people who are aggressive and mean either for no ****ing reason
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Nov 07, 2020 at 09:03 AM
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Passive aggression is hard to deal with because it isn't said outright. It leaves you wondering "Did I just imagine that?"
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Nov 07, 2020 at 09:06 AM
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To add. Sometimes coming back to the person directly can help "Did you mean.. . " whatever it was they seemed to say.
It depends very much on the person and how much they mean to you/wider picture. Sometimes I think people use passive aggression because they never learned to communicate directly. |
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Nov 11, 2020 at 05:08 PM
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Salem,,,,,,,,,,,,..............,,,,,,,,,,,,
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Nov 11, 2020 at 05:11 PM
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