[Fuzzybear]

A disjointed ramble

In another post I mentioned how I unintentionally let down an old friend by not replying “quickly enough” .... this was not intentional. I don’t want to give “horrible” advice.

But I’m sure I have said “horrible” things at times. But what is “horrible”? Is being honest horrible? In my opinion, no...unless the “honesty” is intended to hurt someone



Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

( sorry to (((((( So ))))) - (I hope you don’t mind me using the word horrible in this context... lately I have been second / third guessing things I say including to papa bear ... I often think I give bad / horrible advice... but possibly worrying so much means my advice actually isn’t that horrible..) having read your post I finally found words to express a matter that has been trapped inside me causing me pain

Respect to all

(Not about anyone on pc)

[Thirty shades]

I have never seen you post anything horrible Fuzzy.

I fear that may on occasion have hurt people in the past when not using enough kind words to soften the blow of a tricky subject.

Honesty is not horrible. The truth can help someone if delivered in a kind way.

I now try to plan in advance to make sure that my true intent is visible when I speak.

For this reason I hate talking when in deep pain.

Much respect to all.

[MickeyCheeky]

I certainly don't think you have EVER posted anything horrible, Fuzzybear, my dear! Please don't be hard on yourself! You're a sweet bear who deserves to be loved! Be kind to yourself, ok, dear Fuzzybear? You know you're loved here! We can only try to do our best to help each other! We may not always be able to do that, but it's VERY ADMIRABLE that you're trying to do your best! That's ALL we humans or bears can do after all, right, Fuzzybear? Please be kind to yourself, ok, my friend? WE ALL CARE ABOUT YOU! I PROMISE YOU ALL OF THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! PLEASE REMEMBER ALL OF THAT AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN BECAUSE IT IS TRUE! TAKE GREAT CARE OF YOURSELF! Sending many kind, safe, sweet, warm and WONDERFUL HUGS TO YOU, FUZZYBEAR, JUST LIKE YOU ARE! PLEASE BELIEVE THAT BECAUSE IT IS TRUE AND I'M SURE YOU KNOW THAT EVEN IF IT'S DEEP DOWN!

[Fuzzybear]

Thank you Thirty shades and MickeyCheeky

Much love and respect to both of you