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Default Jul 10, 2022 at 06:34 AM
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I’m coming to the realization that I am not the kind of person someone could fall in love with. I have had yet another love interest go to someone else they like better. I’m not the kind of person someone would drop everything for in order to find time to spend together. I also feel l Iike other people just get things that I don’t. Everyone else sees the world so clearly and I see it through a haze.

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Default Jul 12, 2022 at 12:04 AM
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I am in the same frame of mind right now, but I think it is also a matter of believing in yourself so that your self worth is enough to make you shine and visible for other's eyes. I hope that someone will see you someday as the beautiful human being you are.
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Default Jul 12, 2022 at 12:24 AM
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Similar in my case. I loved the situation last time, when I was rejected and saw her with someone in a doctor's office, purely accidentally. Naturally, he looked like the complete opposite of me 😂. Of course, that has nothing to do with what really matters in the long term, but nonetheless, looks are shallow and determine what happens to initiate everything (or nip it in the bud).
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I am in the same frame of mind right now, but I think it is also a matter of believing in yourself so that your self worth is enough to make you shine and visible for other's eyes. I hope that someone will see you someday as the beautiful human being you are.

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Default Jul 27, 2022 at 01:29 PM
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I’m coming to the realization that I am not the kind of person someone could fall in love with. I have had yet another love interest go to someone else they like better. I’m not the kind of person someone would drop everything for in order to find time to spend together. I also feel l Iike other people just get things that I don’t. Everyone else sees the world so clearly and I see it through a haze.

believe in yourself and start loving yourself.. if you don't love yourself, you can't expect others to love you...relationships are hard, they aren't like the Hollywood movies...you need to be strong to express your wants and needs to the other person, if you aren't and you consider yourself as someone who isn't capable of being loved, what type of person do you think you will end up with? If you find someone tomorrow, how will you express to them what you want and need out of the relationship because you are telling us you aren't worthy of love. So what then you will do it all for somebody, and go along and say "yes" and do whatever they want out of fear of not being alone? That's not healthy for you or the partner.


everyone has good and bad qualities that make us attractable to our partner, no one is perfect...but you need to learn to love yourself before you can learn to love others.. dont compare yourself to others, it's the worst thing you can do. how do you know the people you are referring to get what they want and their life is perfect? no one has it easy in this lifetime, and people dont typically walk around talking about their troubles, they usually show off their supposedly perfect life online or in their cycle of friends, but how many do you know that admit to their problems?


I think you are a person who can be loved, but you need to work on self-love first ..
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