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Default Mar 12, 2019 at 05:30 PM
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https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sour...4RcjElQitc3Un9

Young is the main creator of the concept I think. I found this link in english from him. It's a therapy for personality problems but from what I wonderstood it applies to almost everyone. And it is good for smart, sensitive people with childhood traumas.
I hope it helps someone.
Since I start learning this I just identify schemas in almost everybody I know.

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Young is the main creator of the concept I think. I found this link in english from him. It's a therapy for personality problems but from what I wonderstood it applies to almost everyone. And it is good for smart, sensitive people with childhood traumas.
I hope it helps someone.
Since I start learning this I just identify schemas in almost everybody I know.
Thanks for sharing Mulan

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I like what is going on here...hugs
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Default Mar 13, 2019 at 01:03 AM
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Thanks for sharing Mulan
It helps with insónia too (reading at night). But now that I can think (!) Its a total eye oppener. It is reading (portugueses) and making check along the way.

Please (people in this thread) give me some feed back on what you think. (I live on approval - fail and defectivity schemes)...

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Continuing my long list of posts about schemas. I am having an insonia and decided to do a research on young, on good reads. The existent books are more for practitioner's but this particular one seemed more accessible to common mortal, to me: Cognitive Therapy Personality Disorders Schema Focused Approach.
I sorry for being so attention seaker, but this calms downs my sleeppy wondering mind.

PS - I am reading a peoples trageddy while half a sleep.
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Lúcia needs real life intelectual friends. "walking up" after years and being alone is hard as f.***
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Mulan, to clarify, this is the author and book?
Cognitive Therapy for Personality Disorder: A Schema-Focused Approach, Jeffrey Young

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[QUOTE=Rohag;6467133]Mulan, to clarify, this is the author and book?
Cognitive Therapy for Personality Disorder: A Schema-Focused Approach, Jeffrey Young[/QUOTE

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i love seeing this talk here....the bus is on it's way...
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i love seeing this talk here....the bus is on it's way...
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Everyday I discover more about myself. I am trying to keep sharing along. The way.

Mindfulness perhaps. Today was the day of ranting on my odd/mean residency supervisor. Everybody says she is good and nice, but I see otherwise. I see someone obsessive, superficial, with very little (none) emotional inteligence. I kept shut until today, shutting up is the worst. I said mean things about the perfect lady that makes my life miserable. And decided I am right and I am going to start ignoring her.
I feel so much peace after that.

Apparently my shrink (very smart - proud of her) sister. (#Argumentumadldverecundiam) opened my eyes to a case of very funcional autism... Damm! Where are my supervisor emotions and emotion recognition? No where were I can find them. Bad for me, not for me to deal with, specially when it brings me so much suffering.

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What's wrong with my meds? Even my anxiolytic is causing me restlessness. I guess I m better off without them. I m going to reduce their dosage gradually... that's the only solution that I can think of.
What do you say little turtle and fuzzy and the others?
I m already much better(feel more peaceful) after I stopped prozac and amisulpride(anti-psychotic).
 
 
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What's wrong with my meds? Even my anxiolytic is causing me restlessness. I guess I m better off without them. I m going to reduce their dosage gradually... that's the only solution that I can think of.
What do you say little turtle and fuzzy and the others?
I m already much better(feel more peaceful) after I stopped prozac and amisulpride(anti-psychotic).


dear desiree---maybe you are having some temporary withdrawal effects...
after stopping the Prozac and amisulpride....what do you think...
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What's wrong with my meds? Even my anxiolytic is causing me restlessness. I guess I m better off without them. I m going to reduce their dosage gradually... that's the only solution that I can think of.
What do you say little turtle and fuzzy and the others?
I m already much better(feel more peaceful) after I stopped prozac and amisulpride(anti-psychotic).
I would wait for your doctor if the appointment doesnt take long, secundary effects are terrible, but they pass. With me the only meds that work were the only ones that may me feel bad things. The others were like sugar.

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Default Mar 14, 2019 at 06:02 AM
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I couldn't stand the anxiety, realized, this is working.
My strategies:

Mindfulness
Talk/talk/talk about what makes you nervous
One step at a time
Wait.
(One extra benzo on the side three times)
My doctor is going to be there.

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