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Hot and cold anger, I hadn’t heard of that.. I haven’t read much Dorothy Rowe for a while.

I have difficulty sometimes with PTSD “fight” types / NPD who accuse others of all sorts of stuff that in fact belongs in the “family” of origin, and not in the “object” of their rage

Step maternal unit specialises in that. Eff her

This link relates to Hot and cold anger.

There is no excuse for people who attack others. It is hard though for us to truly respond assertively when our emotions are so abused.

Do you ever stand up against your PU's Fuzzy?
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This link relates to Hot and cold anger.

There is no excuse for people who attack others. It is hard though for us to truly respond assertively when our emotions are so abused.

Do you ever stand up against your PU's Fuzzy?
I have stood up against them.. they labelled me a “bully” and said I “should be punished all my life”...

I agree, it is hard for us to respond assertively when our emotions are so abused. I think a sadistic therapist (in real life) realised this.. its not hard to.. and used me both as a cash cow and to take his rage and indifference out on

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what happened fuzzy
With the therapist? Or the PUs?

A GP a while ago asked me if I’d seen a psychiatrist. I may have mentioned this before. I just said “yes” .. (“a while ago”)

I don’t trust them Although the GPs give 10 minutes (at the most, usually) and have very little understanding of MI or desire to listen.. at least they haven’t tried to force me to stop the benzos which is about the only thing which is helping me stay somewhat sane since I’m allergic to all the other meds I’ve tried.. and have severe anxiety .. which that idiot of a therapist said I had had for “too long” - the anxiety

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I have stood up against them.. they labelled me a “bully” and said I “should be punished all my life”...

I agree, it is hard for us to respond assertively when our emotions are so abused. I think a sadistic therapist (in real life) realised this.. its not hard to.. and used me both as a cash cow and to take his rage and indifference out on
Cruel PU's....

Cruel professionals...

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This link relates to Hot and cold anger.

There is no excuse for people who attack others. It is hard though for us to truly respond assertively when our emotions are so abused.

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Had one of my moments and didn't include the link...

Anger: Hot & Cold Anger & Permanent Life Improvements - Distance Energy Work: energy healing methods
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we are all HUMAN BEINGS...
on the AS IS bus...
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Cruel professionals...

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I am still withdrawing from my celexa...
and I feel better...I am more alive..
there will probably be a down time...
but I am feeling hopeful today..
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I don't think I want to growup so to speak...
I don't want to be what is called successful...
I want to be a kind and caring person...
I don't want to be fighting all the time...
I just want to seek after what is true and helpful..
I can't stand when I hurt someone by what I say or do...
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Default Oct 17, 2018 at 08:46 AM
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what is true...what is real
there is a lot of stress now in the world..
terror may be worse than war...
my greatest stress is me

"we have met the enemy and he is us" ??pogo
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I don't think I want to growup so to speak...
I don't want to be what is called successful...
I want to be a kind and caring person...
I don't want to be fighting all the time...
I just want to seek after what is true and helpful..
I can't stand when I hurt someone by what I say or do...
I wish there were more like you little turtle.. especially more “professionals”

How can I like and respect a species who have done nothing but harm me
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I have a big problem with these psych drugs...
I have a big problem with drugs in general...
I have used them but I see that doctors and
drug companies really push them too much...
I don't like all the money being made off of our
SUFFERING....isn't there something better..
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The something better isn’t fuzzy bear.

Fuzzy bear is a pos

They judge me in their ivory towers and scream with indignation when I speak my truth, so I must be a terrible terrible bear

At least that’s what they want me to think. But they are idiots and are quite simply WRONG.

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I just thought of something...
my wife and I have been fighting forever...
this morning we agreed about something..
we were cooperating...what a difference..

I am the mentally ill guy..
I want to be the mentally ill guy..
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I just thought of something...
my wife and I have been fighting forever...
this morning we agreed about something..
we were cooperating...what a difference..

I am the mentally ill guy..
I want to be the mentally ill guy..
How did you communicate to her, so that she cooperates?

The abusers in my life do not change.

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The “family” apart from papa bear ..

The nicest thing they have said about me is I’m “one of Papa bears flowers”

?? If they thought I was mentally ill, those who tolerate me would .... treat me worse

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