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Default Oct 19, 2019 at 03:55 PM
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My life fell apart years ago
I completely isolated myself after losing my job and break with my first boyfriend. We had been together 3 years and a half
But there wasn't really love... that's the truth
I was 25 and had the classic crysis you can have at that point of your life (I'm 31 now)
I started to go down mentally

I think about it now.
I don't want to find an "escape goat", at all. I'm responsible of what happened

But I can't believe that my sister didn't do really anything
I don't want to be offensive, she's a good person. But she's emotionally immature.
It's "complicated". There are some reasons to me to get triggered

My family has been problematic, I was(am) the youngest
I fought to fix the situation, but not enough, not in the right way

I seriously can't believe that I'm still here after destroying myself so much
I feel humiliated. Also crazy things happened in the last two years

I was a curious person, interested in things
I became a so called hikikomori, as an adult
The last three years I developped psychosis

It's been so much and I can't get out of it

Til a certain moment I used to be quite ok, active
I travelled, I worked, and I tried to be caring
But couldn't focus enough

I find it hard to be taken seriously now and it's also that i feel guity and deal with regrets

Sorry
I'm just beyond
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Default Oct 19, 2019 at 05:06 PM
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I'm sending hugs

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Default Oct 19, 2019 at 06:54 PM
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31 is still young I feel like you can bounce back.
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Default Oct 19, 2019 at 07:46 PM
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You have the rest of a very long life ahead of you! Don't give up!

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Default Oct 22, 2019 at 03:22 AM
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Thank you very much

I'm sorry for what I've done
Wish i was more responsible and able to care for myself

I never got a degree, so at almost 32 and long term unemploymeng is over

The problem is the guilt
I'm very sorry for my parents. They were fragile and had a sad life
I failed to save them even though I tried when I was younger. I was lost

I used to work, I was proud but still lost. Didn't have a long term plan

Crazy violent **** happen in this crazy world and I became a failure adult

I just want this tragic waste of skin to be wash away because I can't handle it and the regrets anymore
Done too stupid things
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Default Oct 22, 2019 at 11:48 AM
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Why was it your job to save your parents? Your job is to save yourself. As I said before, you are quite young. You can still have a fantastic career, if you choose that. I feel like a failure because I got sick at the height of my career and had to quit. But that wasn't my fault. Life happens. I am not a failure. I am a success for dealing with this terrible illness the way I have. The fact is, we all have to deal with difficult, unpleasant challenges in our lives. People in your age group are dealing with cancer and bone marrow transplants and heart disease and the unexpected death of a young spouse and bankruptcy and multiple sclerosis. Stuff happens. The question isn't 'Why did this happen to me?' The question is "What am I going to do about it?'

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You are right
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