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I had plenty of ups and downs in 2018 so seeking more stability is a top goal for me in 2019. I cannot control what comes my way in 2019, nobody can, but my power is in how I respond to what comes. I will respond to 2019 in ways which optimize my personal stability. I will be patient, gentle, and loving with myself. When I feel anxious or unstable I will go to my personal checklist of things which bring me peace and comfort. My anxious or depressed times are a nudge from the Universe to seek out more peace and quiet in order to get back to inner harmony. My downs remind me of how glorious and precious my ups are! Without downs, there can be no ups. With joy, so too comes sorrow. These are natural contrasts of the human condition. I am intrinsically valuable and powerful no matter what...throughout all of my ups and downs. 2019 will be more balanced for me than 2018 because every year I grow stronger and wiser and I have decided it will be so."
Wow! What a powerful flip. Thank you!!!
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Wow! What a powerful flip. Thank you!!!
You are more than welcome Jennifer1967. I firmly believe that when I help others, I also help myself. I'm just a humble "Hope" in the Universe trying to do her best

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I can't fully explain it but this piece of music helps me to feel powerful and hopeful...there is something majestic about it.

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I like to imagine the instruments saying to me: "You got this Hope! You are on the right track. Keep going!"

I am a bit weird...no doubt Hahahaha
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You are more than welcome Jennifer1967. I firmly believe that when I help others, I also help myself. I'm just a humble "Hope" in the Universe trying to do her best

Your advice on flipping for weight loss and stability was so on point that Iíve written it down and am going to carry it around with me. Much appreciation.
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I can't fully explain it but this piece of music helps me to feel powerful and hopeful...there is something majestic about it.

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I love this! Thanks for sharing! It brought back fond memories as I used to play flute, violin and French horn. Itís a powerful piece of music.
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I love this! Thanks for sharing! It brought back fond memories as I used to play flute, violin and French horn. Itís a powerful piece of music.

You're a musician Jennifer?! Talk about reasons to be hopeful!!! Did you know that musicians' brains function on a higher plane than us non-musicians? Same with people who speak multiple languages...recover better from damage...less prone to dementia and a whole host of other wonderful traits! I learned that in neuro in grad school. No hyperbole! Plus you're cool!

Remember that every time you are playing one of your instruments, you are likely soothing or awakening someone's soul! What a glorious gift! I can't play anything. I admire that talent greatly. I love having musicians around me. Bravo you! Seriously
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In honor of Jennifer1967 and all those wonderful musicians out there in the world. I am going to share some more music which I find is good for my soul...spirit...whatever you like to call it...that invisible something which propels us from one day to the next...which will propel us right into a new year!


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Anyone hoping for a higher ground in 2019???


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Usually, I am hopeful for a new year. This year, not so much, maybe because I got tired of saying "This year will be MY year, the year I get something done!" I've said that the past few years and the fact that nothing got done, whether it was because of me or something out of my control, it's got me down this year.

On the positive side, I do have a plan this year. I have goals that I could reach with the support of friends and family. That's about it, I don't have much hope, though. I may have a little bit, just not as much as I usually do.

Thank you for sharing MissDenim and what a great profile name! I picture you with your own denim clothing line...constantly on TV being interviewed about how you made YOUR denim the "must have" denim of the season

You say you have a "little bit of hope." I believe that a little bit of hope can take us a very, very long way. Hope is such a powerful medium that even a drop or two can change futures, resolve conflicts, improve health, and lead us to exactly where we want to be in life. May it happen for you Miss Denim!

If you feel comfortable sharing what would make 2019 feel like YOUR year, go ahead and put it out there on the thread and into the Universe. Maybe something amazing will happen?!
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Does anyone out there have a hopeful thought or song for Miss Denim or anyone else feeling like their hope may be wavering a little bit this year?

Always remember that a sense of connection is a powerful antidote to uncertainty, loss, or despair.

There are no right or wrong answers here. We are all in this crazy gig we call Life together
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