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Default Sep 22, 2019 at 10:19 AM
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I am feeling overwhelmed. Grrrrrr

Everyone here is kind and supportive but IRL they are a complete challenge.

I cannot understand how other people cope with life, while I struggle so....

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I'm sending you hugs, respect and empathy dear friend

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I am feeling overwhelmed. Grrrrrr

Everyone here is kind and supportive but IRL they are a complete challenge.

I cannot understand how other people cope with life, while I struggle so....

I too struggle a lot.

Hope you feel better soon.

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Thank you Fuzzybear and Desiree

Your support means a lot

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@Thirty shades,

I am sorry that you are struggling. Please know that you are not the only one who struggles with life. I know I struggle every day, sometimes with things that seem simple for others. You are not alone in this!

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Thank you Quiet Tulip.

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You're not alone dear friend. I too struggle

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May the storm clouds lift soon to allow some peace and harmony a little space in our lives
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Default Sep 23, 2019 at 05:13 PM
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I hope you are beyond the difficulty you described in your initial post, Thirty shades. Did anything help you through it? Did you find anything from Pete Walker's approach helpful?

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Thank you dear Rohag.

I am calmer due to some Valium. The problem persists unfortunately.

Thank you for reminding me about Pete Walker. I seem to forget all the help I have learned in a crisis.

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I seem to forget all the help I have learned in a crisis.
How that resonates with me!

I strongly suspect many therapists and other mental health professionals do not appreciate the weakness of "education" in the face of powerful internal psychological forces.

I am sorry the problem persists, Thirty shades. Please post as you are able throughout this struggle.

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How that resonates with me!

I strongly suspect many therapists and other mental health professionals do not appreciate the weakness of "education" in the face of powerful internal psychological forces.

I am sorry the problem persists, Thirty shades. Please post as you are able throughout this struggle.
I completely relate to this also

much love and respect to all in this thread

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Thank you dear Rohag.

I am calmer due to some Valium. The problem persists unfortunately.

Thank you for reminding me about Pete Walker. I seem to forget all the help I have learned in a crisis.

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I know how you feel dear Thirty shades

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My inner cub needs some attention...

I have been quietening her with Valium

Thank you dear Rohag and dear Fuzzybear for your support and kindness.

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My inner cub needs some attention...

I have been quietening her with Valium

Thank you dear Rohag and dear Fuzzybear for your support and kindness.

I am sending my thanks for being here dear friends
I know how you feel dear friend

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My inner cub needs some attention...

I have been quietening her with Valium

Thank you dear Rohag and dear Fuzzybear for your support and kindness.

I am sending my thanks for being here dear friends
I'm thinking of you dear friend. thank you for being here

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We are not 'shameful beings'
maybe 'they' are shameful with their labels and finger pointing

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We are not 'shameful beings'
maybe 'they' are shameful with their labels and finger pointing
There is no shame in being true.

Why are we treated like we don't matter? Why are we seen as faulty?
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There is no shame in being true.

Why are we treated like we don't matter? Why are we seen as faulty?
Maybe they can't own their own mistakes (everyone makes them)
their own darkness..
their own ….


to all who are true and AS IS

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Maybe they can't own their own mistakes (everyone makes them)
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to all who are true and AS IS
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