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Default Mar 18, 2019 at 04:22 PM
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I am exhausted of trying to say what people want to ear. I get lost in the middle. Sights. And my sister says I shouldnt get involved so much, but it is.so.hard to find people whom we share similar visions and are available for new relationships. The smart thoughtfull people I like have their own lives and I Just have to walk in eggshells with people at work whose vision of the world I don’t agree with. It só dam exhausting. It's só dam exhausting to deal with people who dont care about your opinion (just their own) and just want to ear themselves talk (about what makes them happy or sad). I am sorry if I consider a kiss in the neck from a 40 something doctor to a 28woman in a doctor patient setting wrong. And I am sorry if I consider that platonic passion (the girl) very disturbing. And I am sorry if I find it wrong someone that is barely an intern assuming more responsabilities (with all the confidence) than he should from is knowledge. He is not smart is a not humble person, that likes show of and everybody with the minimum commom sense shouldnt fall for it. But people fall and that annoys me terribely. Blinded people that cant see their own faults annoys me. Thank you for let me ranting.
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And even steal our gifts sometimes
I would stay "steal" as I deep doen believe they are still there. But unfortunatly so True.

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Default Mar 18, 2019 at 05:28 PM
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I am there for everyone around me and people are just not there for me. (irl) And It's not (only) my inner critic abandonment issues speaking. If people cared about me wouldnt ignore my worries and oppinions. So much selfish people caring only about their own lifes around. Who the hell says I suffered a lot I can do whatever I want?

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Default Mar 18, 2019 at 05:31 PM
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I am sorry I suffered a lot through my life too and don’t use it as a topic of conversation whenever I want attention. And I like to care about both people needs until we get to a mid way.

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I am there for everyone around me and people are just not there for me. (irl) And It's not (only) my inner critic abandonment issues speaking. If people cared about me wouldnt ignore my worries and oppinions. So much selfish people caring only about their own lifes around. Who the hell says I suffered a lot I can do whatever I want?
I feel the same often.
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I find that insight can come from “whining” - if someone is intelligent

But how to force “changes” is quite another issue..

I’ve never been a fan of being forced to “do things”

“Avpd” doesn’t come out of nowhere and it isn’t for “cowards” or “simply whiners”

I doubt if anyone fitted that “criteria” of being a “coward and a whiner” they would have survived as long as I have ...

I also used to have quite a “talent” at attracting abuse

My snake is angry today. Feel free to ignore her..

(Not angry with anyone here )
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I am there for everyone around me and people are just not there for me. (irl) And It's not (only) my inner critic abandonment issues speaking. If people cared about me wouldnt ignore my worries and oppinions. So much selfish people caring only about their own lifes around. Who the hell says I suffered a lot I can do whatever I want?
I often find the same thing, I’m there for people (irl) and they aren’t there for me

People who care wouldn’t ignore our worries and opinions.. grrrrrrr. They are selfish

I’ve known some whose “suffering” ... grrrrrrrrrr..... they think it’s ok to treat people like dirt? No no no.

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I often find the same thing, I’m there for people (irl) and they aren’t there for me

People who care wouldn’t ignore our worries and opinions.. grrrrrrr. They are selfish

I’ve known some whose “suffering” ... grrrrrrrrrr..... they think it’s ok to treat people like dirt? No no no.
So called Normal People ignore or bully us
Then they wonder why we withdraw and isolate

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