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It's all perception. There's plenty of wonderful people out there. And if someone says you're negative, they are probably projecting. Which means they are the negative one. Not you. Self preservation is important.
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It's all perception. There's plenty of wonderful people out there. And if someone says you're negative, they are probably projecting. Which means they are the negative one. Not you. Self preservation is important.
Couldn't have said it better myself! Well done. That's the mantra of my life, "Be positive. You'll achieve unimaginable things." Unfortunately it's not that easy to be positive for some people, that's why it's said positive thinking can achieve great things. Well done.
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Yea, it seems like those who tell you that you are negative or into psychoanalyzing you are the ones that don't have their lives all together. If you notice, those who are very positive are the ones that would tell you what's great about you than what's wrong with you.
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Yea, it seems like those who tell you that you are negative or into psychoanalyzing you are the ones that don't have their lives all together. If you notice, those who are very positive are the ones that would tell you what's great about you than what's wrong with you.
Good post, I agree with this
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Another one... let those who don’t appreciate us (and who are actually “negative” and “toxic”) go and .... let them go, it’s their loss
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I found this helpful list in a 'Science of Happiness' magazine. Hope it helps others too

1 Avoid negative people
2 Find your tribe
3 Respect your own needs
4 Be grateful
5 Let go of judgment
6 Make mental health a priority
7 Go on a social-media diet
8 Be present and mindful
9 Move every day
10 Adopt a pet
11 Sleep more
12 Spend time with loved ones
13 Help others
14 Broaden your horizons
15 Savor your happiness
Thanks for the list.

I don't mind negative people though. I avoid those who willingly trigger me for self preservation.

Rejection is a trigger for many and people are negative through their experiences not because they are at fault. Spending time getting to know their story creates understanding and their friendship is true unlike so called "normal people."
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Thanks for the list.

I don't mind negative people though. I avoid those who willingly trigger me for self preservation.

Rejection is a trigger for many and people are negative through their experiences not because they are at fault. Spending time getting to know their story creates understanding and their friendship is true unlike so called "normal people."
Good post, I agree
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Thanks for the list.

I don't mind negative people though. I avoid those who willingly trigger me for self preservation.

Rejection is a trigger for many and people are negative through their experiences not because they are at fault. Spending time getting to know their story creates understanding and their friendship is true unlike so called "normal people."
I agree. Rejection is a trigger for many. Thank you Thirty shades for this wise post.

I avoid those who willingly trigger me.

Thank you for the list and the discussion.
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thanks.

need to work on number 2 for sure
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I agree. Rejection is a trigger for many. Thank you Thirty shades for this wise post.

I avoid those who willingly trigger me.

Thank you for the list and the discussion.
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