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Mar 18, 2019 at 02:23 PM
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When I’m tough on myself for having depression or for not being a certain thing I am simply repeating what those who harmed me did. When I’m tough and cruel on myself for being suicidal, I feel more suicidal.
 When I judge my potential I am mimicing what some who harmed me did. I’m not interested in potential. I am a human not a machine.
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Mar 18, 2019 at 02:44 PM
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 I don’t like “tough love” ... it’s not love at all
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Mar 18, 2019 at 03:03 PM
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 In my case, relying on my peculiar dysfunctions, I lean on my depressive apathy to "greet" such feelings as semi-regular visitors and let them stay and go as they please. "Arguing" with them only strengthens them.  
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Mar 18, 2019 at 03:09 PM
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Mar 19, 2019 at 04:39 AM
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